Meaning & use

a sexual desire

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UK/ə ˈsekʃuəl dɪˌzaɪə/
US/ə ˈsekʃuəl dɪˌzaɪər/

Meanings

  1. phrasecountable

    a feeling of wanting sexual activity or sexual contact with someone

    Grammar: Countable: you can say 'a sexual desire' or 'sexual desires'; the article 'a' is needed in the singular.

    Patterns

    • a sexual desire for someone
    • have a sexual desire
    • lose a sexual desire

    He admitted he still felt a sexual desire for his ex-partner.

    Stress and tiredness can reduce a person's sexual desire.

    The book discusses how a sexual desire changes with age.

  2. phrasecountabletechnical

    a strong wish for something that gives physical pleasure, especially in psychology writing

    Grammar: Used mostly in academic psychology; in ordinary talk 'desire' alone is more natural.

    Patterns

    • a sexual desire for something
    • suppress a sexual desire

    Freud wrote about how a sexual desire can be redirected into art.

    The study measured a sexual desire using a simple questionnaire.

Common combinations

have a sexual desire
Many people have a sexual desire that comes and goes.
a sexual desire for someone
She spoke openly about a sexual desire for her colleague.
lose a sexual desire
After the illness he lost a sexual desire almost completely.
a strong sexual desire
The novel describes a strong sexual desire that ruins a friendship.

Synonyms and how they differ

sex drive
More informal and often used of a general level of interest in sex rather than one feeling.
lust
Stronger and often disapproving; it suggests desire that is hard to control.
libido
A technical or medical term for the general strength of someone's sexual desire.

Word family

desire noun
a general strong wish for something
desirable adjective
attractive or worth having
desirability noun
the quality of being wanted or attractive

Commonly confused: a sexual desire or sexual orientation?

a sexual desire vs sexual orientation

Orientation is about which sex or gender you are attracted to; desire is about wanting sex itself.

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