Meaning & use
affability
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Meaning
noununcountable
A relaxed, friendly manner that makes a person pleasant and easy to talk to.
Grammar: No plural and usually no article: his affability won people over.
Patterns
- the affability of someone
- with affability
The shopkeeper's affability made every customer feel welcome.
Her affability disarmed even the angriest callers.
He greeted the visitors with great affability.
Common combinations
- natural affability
- His natural affability made him a popular teacher.
- easy affability
- She carried herself with an easy affability.
- famed for affability
- The mayor was famed for affability rather than for policy.
- treat with affability
- The host treated every guest with affability.
- surface affability
- Behind his surface affability was a hard negotiator.
Synonyms and how they differ
- friendliness
- Friendliness is the everyday word and can describe any warmth, while affability suggests a polished, easygoing sociability.
- geniality
- Geniality stresses cheerful warmth and good humor, whereas affability stresses being approachable and pleasant to deal with.
- amiability
- Amiability describes a kind, good-natured character, while affability is more about the manner shown in conversation.
- cordiality
- Cordiality is warm but a bit formal, as in a greeting, while affability describes a person's general personality.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: affability or affectation? affability or affinity?
affability vs affectation
Affectation means behavior put on for show and is not the same as natural friendliness.
affability vs affinity
Affinity means a natural liking for or similarity with something, not a friendly manner.
Practice
The new manager's ______ put the nervous staff at ease on her first day.
Choose one answer.
Affability means friendly, easy manners, which would calm nervous staff. Severity and hostility would make them more anxious, and vanity is about pride in oneself.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “affability”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.