Meaning & use
bailing on you
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“bailing on you” is a form of “bail on”.
Meaning
phrasephrasal verbinformal
Canceling plans with someone at the last minute, or leaving them to deal with a problem alone.
Grammar: Part of the phrasal verb 'bail on someone'; the object usually comes after 'on'.
Patterns
- bail on someone
- bail on a plan
She's always bailing on you at the last minute, so don't count on her.
I can't believe he's bailing on us the night before the trip.
They accused the company of bailing on its promise to help.
Word forms
| base form | bail on |
|---|---|
| third person singular | bails on |
| past tense | bailed on |
| past participle | bailed on |
| present participle | bailing on |
Common combinations
- bail on someone
- He bailed on me when I needed him most.
- bail on a plan
- They bailed on the plan to go hiking.
- bail on a promise
- The government bailed on its promise to lower taxes.
- keep bailing on
- Stop bailing on your friends.
Synonyms and how they differ
- cancel on
- More neutral and slightly more formal; it means you told someone you can't come, but doesn't suggest leaving them in trouble.
- abandon
- Stronger and more formal; it means leaving someone completely, often permanently.
- ditch
- Very informal and can sound harsh; it often means leaving someone without warning.
Opposites
Word family
- bail verb
- To leave a place or situation quickly, often to escape.
- bailout noun
- Financial help given to a company or country in trouble.
Commonly confused: bailing on you or bale?
bailing on you vs bale
A large bundle of hay or straw; 'bail' (with i) is the verb meaning to leave or cancel.
Practice
Which sentence uses 'bailing on you' correctly?
Choose one answer.
The phrasal verb 'bail on someone' means to cancel plans or leave someone. Option 2 fits because it shows canceling plans. Option 1 is wrong because 'bailing on you to' is not a pattern. Option 3 confuses 'bail' with 'bail out' (remove water). Option 4 is wrong because 'bailing on you for' is not used.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “bailing on you”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.