Meaning & use

be a burden

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UK/biː ə ˈbɜːdn/
US/biː ə ˈbɜːrdn/

Meanings

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    to cause trouble, worry or extra work for someone

    Grammar: Usually followed by 'on' or 'to' and a person: be a burden on your family.

    Patterns

    • be a burden on someone
    • be a burden to someone
    • feel like a burden

    She didn't want to be a burden on her children, so she hired a nurse.

    After the accident, he felt he was a burden to his friends.

    Paying for the wedding was a burden on both families.

  2. phrasefixed phrase

    to be a heavy load that is difficult to carry

    Grammar: This literal use is less common; it can refer to physical weight.

    Patterns

    • be a burden on something
    • be a burden for someone to carry

    The old backpack was a burden on his shoulders after a long day.

    The extra supplies were a burden for the hikers to carry.

Common combinations

be a burden on someone
I don't want to be a burden on my parents.
be a burden to someone
He was a burden to his colleagues because he never finished his work.
feel like a burden
After losing his job, he felt like a burden.
become a burden
The old car became a burden because it kept breaking down.

Synonyms and how they differ

be a nuisance
This means to annoy someone, but it does not carry the idea of being a heavy responsibility or expense.
be a drain on
This is stronger and often about money or energy: 'The project was a drain on our resources.'

Opposites

be a helpbe a support

Word family

burden noun
a heavy load or a difficult responsibility
burden verb
to give someone a difficult responsibility
burdensome adjective
causing trouble or extra work

Commonly confused: be a burden or burden?

be a burden vs burden

'Burden' alone is a noun or verb; 'be a burden' is the phrase meaning to cause trouble. You can say 'Don't burden your friends' but not 'Don't be a burden your friends'—you need 'on' or 'to'.

Practice

Complete the sentence: 'She didn't want to ___ her family.'

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