Meaning & use
be a burden
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Meanings
phrasefixed phrase
to cause trouble, worry or extra work for someone
Grammar: Usually followed by 'on' or 'to' and a person: be a burden on your family.
Patterns
- be a burden on someone
- be a burden to someone
- feel like a burden
She didn't want to be a burden on her children, so she hired a nurse.
After the accident, he felt he was a burden to his friends.
Paying for the wedding was a burden on both families.
phrasefixed phrase
to be a heavy load that is difficult to carry
Grammar: This literal use is less common; it can refer to physical weight.
Patterns
- be a burden on something
- be a burden for someone to carry
The old backpack was a burden on his shoulders after a long day.
The extra supplies were a burden for the hikers to carry.
Common combinations
- be a burden on someone
- I don't want to be a burden on my parents.
- be a burden to someone
- He was a burden to his colleagues because he never finished his work.
- feel like a burden
- After losing his job, he felt like a burden.
- become a burden
- The old car became a burden because it kept breaking down.
Synonyms and how they differ
- be a nuisance
- This means to annoy someone, but it does not carry the idea of being a heavy responsibility or expense.
- be a drain on
- This is stronger and often about money or energy: 'The project was a drain on our resources.'
Opposites
Word family
- burden noun
- a heavy load or a difficult responsibility
- burden verb
- to give someone a difficult responsibility
- burdensome adjective
- causing trouble or extra work
Commonly confused: be a burden or burden?
be a burden vs burden
'Burden' alone is a noun or verb; 'be a burden' is the phrase meaning to cause trouble. You can say 'Don't burden your friends' but not 'Don't be a burden your friends'—you need 'on' or 'to'.
Practice
Complete the sentence: 'She didn't want to ___ her family.'
Choose one answer.
The correct phrase is 'be a burden on someone', so option A fits. Option B is missing the preposition 'on' or 'to'. Option C uses 'burden' as a verb but then 'on' is wrong. Option D is not grammatical.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “be a burden”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.