Meaning & use
bend rules
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Meanings
phraseidiom
To do something that is not strictly allowed by a rule, usually in a small or unofficial way.
Grammar: Used as a verb phrase; often followed by "for someone" when the exception helps a particular person.
Patterns
- bend the rules
- bend the rules for someone
- bend the rules to do something
The coach bent the rules and let the injured player join the last practice.
Some companies bend the rules to avoid paying higher taxes.
I don't mind if you bend the rules a little, but don't break them completely.
phraseidiom
To change or ignore a rule slightly so that it fits a special situation.
Grammar: Often used when the speaker thinks the exception is reasonable or necessary.
Patterns
- bend the rules for something
The teacher bent the rules for the student who had been sick for two weeks.
They bent the rules to allow the small shop to stay open later during the festival.
Common combinations
- bend the rules for someone
- The manager bent the rules for her because she had worked there for twenty years.
- bend the rules a little
- He bent the rules a little by arriving five minutes late without a penalty.
- willing to bend the rules
- The new director is not willing to bend the rules for anyone.
- bend the rules to do something
- She bent the rules to get her brother into the club.
Synonyms and how they differ
- stretch the rules
- Very similar, but often suggests pushing the limits further than just bending them.
- make an exception
- More neutral and official; it does not suggest that the rule is being treated as flexible.
- cut corners
- Means doing something badly or cheaply to save time or money, not just ignoring a rule.
Opposites
Commonly confused: bend rules or break the rules?
bend rules vs break the rules
"Break the rules" means to disobey them completely; "bend the rules" means to make only a small exception.
Practice
The referee ______ the rules by letting the team play five extra minutes.
Choose one answer.
"Bent" is the correct past tense of "bend" and fits the meaning of making a small exception. "Broke" would mean the referee completely disobeyed the rules, which is stronger than the intended meaning.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “bend rules”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.