Meaning & use
burden to someone
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Meanings
phraseidiom
A person or thing that causes worry, extra work or cost for another person.
Grammar: Usually used with 'be', 'become' or 'feel like': 'She felt like a burden to her family.'
Patterns
- be a burden to someone
- become a burden to someone
- feel like a burden to someone
After his accident, he worried that he had become a burden to his wife.
Please don't think you are a burden to us; we are happy to help.
The extra costs were a burden to the small business.
phraseidiom
Something that makes life harder for a person or group, especially in a way that feels unfair.
Grammar: Can refer to rules, taxes or duties as well as people: 'a burden to taxpayers'.
Patterns
- a burden to taxpayers
- a burden to the community
- place a burden on someone
The new paperwork is a burden to teachers who already have too much to do.
These fees are a heavy burden to families on low incomes.
Common combinations
- be a burden to someone
- He did not want to be a burden to his children.
- become a burden to someone
- The old car became a burden to its owner.
- feel like a burden to someone
- She felt like a burden to her friends.
- a burden to society
- Some politicians wrongly describe older people as a burden to society.
Synonyms and how they differ
- drain
- A 'drain on someone' suggests using up money, energy or resources, often more strongly than 'burden'.
- weight
- A 'weight on someone' is more emotional and suggests worry or sadness rather than practical work.
Opposites
Word family
- burdensome adjective
- Causing extra work or worry; formal.
- burden noun
- A heavy load or a difficult duty.
- burden verb
- To give someone a difficult duty or worry.
Commonly confused: burden to someone or burden on someone?
burden to someone vs burden on someone
'Burden on someone' is also common and emphasizes the pressure placed on a person; 'burden to someone' often focuses on the person who feels they are causing trouble.
Practice
Choose the sentence that uses 'burden to someone' correctly.
Choose one answer.
'A burden to someone' is the fixed phrase with 'to'. Option 1 uses 'burden' as a verb with the wrong pattern; option 2 uses 'for' instead of the usual 'to'; option 3 is missing the article 'a'.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “burden to someone”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.