Meaning & use
calm her down
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Meaning
phrasetransitive
To make a woman or girl feel less angry, excited, or upset, so that she becomes quiet and relaxed.
Grammar: Takes an object; the object pronoun goes between 'calm' and 'down': calm her down. You can also say 'calm her down' with a name: calm Maria down.
Patterns
- calm someone down
- calm her down
She was crying, so I held her hand to calm her down.
It took me half an hour to calm her down after the argument.
The nurse spoke softly to calm her down before the injection.
Common combinations
- try to calm her down
- He tried to calm her down, but she kept shouting.
- help calm her down
- A cup of tea helped calm her down.
- calm her down after
- We had to calm her down after the shocking news.
- manage to calm her down
- Eventually, I managed to calm her down.
Synonyms and how they differ
- soothe her
- Soothe her means to make her feel less pain or distress; calm her down focuses more on reducing excitement or anger.
- settle her down
- Settle her down is similar but often means to help her become quiet and ready to rest or sleep.
- pacify her
- Pacify her often means to stop her from being angry by giving in to demands; it can sound disapproving.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: calm her down or calm her?
calm her down vs calm her
'Calm her' is not standard English; you need the particle 'down': 'calm her down'.
Practice
She was furious about the mistake, so I tried to _______.
Choose one answer.
With a pronoun object, the correct order is 'calm her down'. 'Calm down her' is wrong because the pronoun must come between the verb and the particle. The other options are ungrammatical.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “calm her down”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.