Meaning & use
come-hither
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Meaning
adjectivebefore a nouninformalhumorous
Inviting or flirtatious, suggesting that someone should come closer, usually describing a look or smile.
Grammar: Used before a noun, mostly look, smile or glance: a come-hither look.
Patterns
- a come-hither look
- a come-hither smile
He gave her a come-hither smile across the crowded room.
The actress cast a come-hither glance at the camera.
The cat gave the dog a come-hither look, then pounced.
Common combinations
- come-hither look
- The portrait showed a come-hither look.
- come-hither smile
- A come-hither smile spread across her face.
- come-hither glance
- He tossed a come-hither glance over his shoulder.
- come-hither eyes
- The singer had come-hither eyes.
- come-hither gesture
- A come-hither gesture of her finger brought him over.
Synonyms and how they differ
- flirtatious
- Flirtatious describes the general manner of someone who flirts, whereas come-hither describes one inviting look or gesture.
- seductive
- Seductive is stronger and more serious, while come-hither is light and often humorous.
- inviting
- Inviting is the broad word for anything that attracts a person, and it need not be romantic.
- beckoning
- Beckoning describes a signal to come over, but it need not carry the playful romantic hint of come-hither.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: come-hither or hither and thither?
come-hither vs hither and thither
Hither and thither means here and there. It describes movement in all directions, not a flirtatious look.
Practice
Which noun is most natural after come-hither?
Choose one answer.
A come-hither look is the usual phrase for an inviting glance. The other nouns do not combine naturally with come-hither.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “come-hither”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.