Meaning & use
count our blessings
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Meaning
phraseidiom
To remember and feel grateful for the good things in your life, especially when you are unhappy about something.
Grammar: The possessive pronoun changes to match the subject: I should count my blessings; she counts her blessings.
Patterns
- count your blessings
- count our blessings
- tell someone to count their blessings
Instead of complaining about the rain, let's count our blessings and be glad we have a warm home.
After the accident, she began to count her blessings every morning.
You have a loving family and good health, so count your blessings.
Common combinations
- count your blessings
- When you feel jealous of others, count your blessings.
- sit down and count your blessings
- He sat down and counted his blessings after a difficult year.
- time to count our blessings
- Thanksgiving is a time to count our blessings.
- remind someone to count their blessings
- Her grandmother reminded her to count her blessings.
Synonyms and how they differ
- be grateful
- This states the feeling directly, while 'count your blessings' is a more vivid idiom that tells someone to think about the good things.
- appreciate what you have
- This is a plain phrase with a similar meaning but less emotional punch.
- look on the bright side
- This focuses on finding something positive in a bad situation, whereas counting your blessings focuses on feeling thankful for what you already have.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: count our blessings or blessing?
count our blessings vs blessing
A 'blessing' is one good thing or a prayer for help. The idiom 'count your blessings' uses the plural and means noticing all the good things together.
Practice
Which sentence uses the idiom correctly?
Choose one answer.
The idiom means reminding someone to be grateful for the good things in life, which fits option 1. The other options treat 'count' literally as counting money, making a decision, or checking doors, which is not the idiomatic meaning.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “count our blessings”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.