Meaning & use
despair
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Meanings
noununcountable
A complete loss of hope; the feeling that a situation cannot improve.
Grammar: Uncountable; used with 'in' to describe a state, e.g. 'in despair'.
Patterns
- in despair
- despair at something
- the depths of despair
After losing his job, he sank into despair.
She was in despair when she heard the bad news.
The team was close to despair after so many defeats.
verbintransitive
To lose all hope that a situation will improve.
Grammar: No object; often followed by 'of' or 'at'.
Patterns
- despair of something
- despair at something
They began to despair of ever finding a solution.
He despaired at the state of the world.
Don't despair; things will get better.
Word forms
| third person singular | despairs |
|---|---|
| past tense | despaired |
| past participle | despaired |
| -ing form | despairing |
Common combinations
- in despair
- She cried out in despair.
- sink into despair
- He sank into despair after the accident.
- despair of
- They despaired of ever seeing their home again.
- the depths of despair
- Even in the depths of despair, she kept writing.
Synonyms and how they differ
- hopelessness
- Hopelessness is a general feeling of no hope; despair is stronger and often suggests deep emotional suffering.
- desperation
- Desperation is a feeling that makes you act recklessly; despair is more about giving up hope.
Opposites
Word family
- despairing adjective
- Feeling or showing despair.
- despairingly adverb
- In a way that shows despair.
Commonly confused: despair or desperation?
despair vs desperation
Desperation is a state of urgent, often reckless need; despair is a loss of hope.
Practice
Which sentence uses 'despair' correctly?
Choose one answer.
'In despair' is the correct phrase for a state of hopelessness. 'In despair of failing' is wrong because 'despair of' is used as a verb, not after 'in'. 'Despaired the exam' is wrong because 'despair' is intransitive and cannot take a direct object. 'Despair to fail' is wrong because 'despair' is not followed by an infinitive.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “despair”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.