Meaning & use

distance myself

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UK/ˈdɪstəns maɪˌself/
US/ˈdɪstəns maɪˌself/

Meanings

  1. phraseidiom

    To deliberately become less involved with someone or something, often to avoid blame or association.

    Grammar: Always used with a reflexive pronoun and the preposition 'from': distance myself from the scandal.

    Patterns

    • distance myself from someone
    • distance myself from something
    • distance yourself from someone/something

    The minister tried to distance myself from the controversial remarks, but reporters kept asking questions.

    She distanced herself from her old friends after she got the new job.

    He quickly distanced himself from the company's failure to pay its workers.

  2. phraseidiom

    To move physically away from a person or place, creating more space between you and them.

    Grammar: Used with a reflexive pronoun and 'from'; can refer to literal physical movement or emotional withdrawal.

    Patterns

    • distance myself from someone
    • distance myself from something

    I could feel the dog growling, so I distanced myself from it slowly.

    The crowd was pushing, so we distanced ourselves from the stage.

Common combinations

distance yourself from a scandal
The mayor tried to distance himself from the scandal before the election.
distance myself from the past
She wanted to distance herself from her past mistakes.
emotionally distance myself
After the argument, he emotionally distanced himself from everyone.
distance myself from a decision
The board distanced itself from the CEO's decision.

Synonyms and how they differ

dissociate myself
Stronger and more formal; often suggests a complete mental or official separation, while 'distance myself' can be gradual or social.
detach myself
Focuses on emotional or physical separation and is often used about feelings rather than public statements.
withdraw
Means to remove yourself from an activity or group; it does not need 'from' in the same fixed way and can be used without a reflexive pronoun.

Opposites

associate myselfidentify myself

Word family

distance noun
The amount of space between two things, or emotional separation.
distant adjective
Far away in space or time, or emotionally cold and unfriendly.
distantly adverb
In a way that shows emotional coldness or physical farness.

Commonly confused: distance myself or distance me? distance myself or dissociate myself?

distance myself vs distance me

'Distance me' is not standard when talking about social withdrawal; use the reflexive 'distance myself' instead.

distance myself vs dissociate myself

Similar in meaning but more formal and stronger; it often appears in official statements about scandals or crimes.

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