Meaning & use
distance myself
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Meanings
phraseidiom
To deliberately become less involved with someone or something, often to avoid blame or association.
Grammar: Always used with a reflexive pronoun and the preposition 'from': distance myself from the scandal.
Patterns
- distance myself from someone
- distance myself from something
- distance yourself from someone/something
The minister tried to distance myself from the controversial remarks, but reporters kept asking questions.
She distanced herself from her old friends after she got the new job.
He quickly distanced himself from the company's failure to pay its workers.
phraseidiom
To move physically away from a person or place, creating more space between you and them.
Grammar: Used with a reflexive pronoun and 'from'; can refer to literal physical movement or emotional withdrawal.
Patterns
- distance myself from someone
- distance myself from something
I could feel the dog growling, so I distanced myself from it slowly.
The crowd was pushing, so we distanced ourselves from the stage.
Common combinations
- distance yourself from a scandal
- The mayor tried to distance himself from the scandal before the election.
- distance myself from the past
- She wanted to distance herself from her past mistakes.
- emotionally distance myself
- After the argument, he emotionally distanced himself from everyone.
- distance myself from a decision
- The board distanced itself from the CEO's decision.
Synonyms and how they differ
- dissociate myself
- Stronger and more formal; often suggests a complete mental or official separation, while 'distance myself' can be gradual or social.
- detach myself
- Focuses on emotional or physical separation and is often used about feelings rather than public statements.
- withdraw
- Means to remove yourself from an activity or group; it does not need 'from' in the same fixed way and can be used without a reflexive pronoun.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: distance myself or distance me? distance myself or dissociate myself?
distance myself vs distance me
'Distance me' is not standard when talking about social withdrawal; use the reflexive 'distance myself' instead.
distance myself vs dissociate myself
Similar in meaning but more formal and stronger; it often appears in official statements about scandals or crimes.
Practice
Choose the correct sentence:
Choose one answer.
'Distance' in this sense takes a reflexive pronoun that matches the subject: 'she' goes with 'herself'. Option 1 uses the wrong pronoun, option 2 uses the wrong reflexive form for 'she', and option 3 has an unnatural word order.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “distance myself”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.