Meaning & use
fairweather friend
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Meanings
nouncountabledisapproving
A person who is friendly when things are going well but who abandons you when you face trouble.
Grammar: Countable: a fairweather friend, two fairweather friends.
Patterns
- a fairweather friend to someone
He turned out to be a fairweather friend and vanished when I lost my job.
I learned who my fairweather friends were when I got sick.
Don't be a fairweather friend: stay with her through the hard times.
nouncountableinformaldisapproving
A supporter who backs a team or cause only while it is succeeding.
Grammar: Often used for sports fans.
Patterns
- a fairweather friend of something
Fairweather friends of the club left after the losing streak.
The charity lost many fairweather friends after the scandal.
Real fans stay; fairweather friends vanish after one defeat.
Word forms
| plural | fairweather friends |
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Common combinations
- a true friend, not a fairweather friend
- She proved she was a true friend, not a fairweather friend.
- turn out to be a fairweather friend
- Some people turn out to be fairweather friends.
- fairweather friends disappear
- Fairweather friends disappear when money is tight.
- rid of fairweather friends
- Troubles can rid you of fairweather friends.
- treat as a fairweather friend
- He treated her as a fairweather friend after that.
Synonyms and how they differ
- summer friend
- Summer friend is a rarer variant that carries the same idea but is less established than fairweather friend.
- acquaintance
- An acquaintance is someone you know slightly and does not imply disloyalty.
- hanger-on
- A hanger-on stays near someone to gain benefit, while a fairweather friend leaves when benefits stop.
- opportunist
- An opportunist uses situations for gain and is a general insult, not specifically about friendship.
Opposites
Word family
- fair-weather adjective
- only dependable in good conditions
- friend noun
- a person you like and trust
- friendship noun
- the relationship between friends
- befriend verb
- to become a friend to someone
Commonly confused: fairweather friend or fair-weather?
fairweather friend vs fair-weather
Fair-weather is the usual hyphenated adjective, as in fair-weather fans. It does not describe nice weather.
Practice
After the company failed, most of his colleagues stopped calling him; he realized they were just ___.
Choose one answer.
Fairweather friends leave when times turn bad. Lifelong friends would stay, and the other options do not fit the meaning.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “fairweather friend”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.