Meaning & use

feeling bitter

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UK/ˈfiːlɪŋ ˈbɪtə/
US/ˈfiːlɪŋ ˈbɪtər/

Meanings

  1. phraseidiom

    experiencing angry disappointment because you think you have been treated unfairly.

    Grammar: Often followed by 'about' or 'towards': feeling bitter about the past.

    Patterns

    • feeling bitter about something
    • feeling bitter towards someone
    • feeling bitter over something

    He was still feeling bitter about losing his job.

    She felt bitter towards her former friend after the betrayal.

    After years of being ignored, he felt bitter and resentful.

  2. phraseidiom

    showing lasting resentment that makes someone harsh or unfriendly.

    Grammar: Can describe a person's general attitude: a bitter old man.

    Patterns

    • a bitter person
    • bitter feelings

    He became a bitter man after the divorce.

    Her bitter tone made it clear she hadn't forgiven him.

Common combinations

feeling bitter about the past
She was still feeling bitter about the past and couldn't move on.
feeling bitter towards someone
He felt bitter towards his brother for taking the inheritance.
bitter disappointment
The team's loss was a bitter disappointment for the fans.
a bitter argument
They had a bitter argument that left both feeling hurt.

Synonyms and how they differ

resentful
Resentful is close in meaning but focuses on the feeling of being treated unfairly; bitter adds a sense of lasting anger and disappointment.
angry
Angry is a more general emotion; bitter is a specific, long-lasting anger mixed with disappointment.
embittered
Embittered is more formal and means made bitter by experiences; it often describes a person's lasting state.

Opposites

feeling contentfeeling forgivingfeeling grateful

Word family

bitterness noun
The feeling of being bitter.
bitterly adverb
In a bitter way; often used with 'disappointed' or 'complain'.
embitter verb
To make someone feel bitter.

Commonly confused: feeling bitter or bitter?

feeling bitter vs bitter

'Bitter' can also describe a sharp taste, like strong coffee or dark chocolate. 'Feeling bitter' is only about emotions.

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