Meaning & use

get my shit together

phrase·Advancedinformalvulgar

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UK/ɡet maɪ ʃɪt təˈɡeðə/
US/ɡet maɪ ʃɪt təˈɡeðər/
Usage warning: this word is vulgar. It can hurt or insult people. Learn to recognise it, but avoid using it about anyone.

Meaning

  1. phraseidiominformalvulgar

    to start behaving in a responsible, organized way and deal with your problems or duties

    Grammar: The pronoun changes to match the subject: I need to get my shit together, she got her shit together.

    Patterns

    • get one's shit together
    • need to get one's shit together

    After months of missing deadlines, he finally got his shit together and finished the project.

    You need to get your shit together before the exam, or you'll fail.

    She got her shit together and started going to the gym every morning.

Common combinations

finally get one's shit together
After years of drifting, she finally got her shit together.
need to get one's shit together
I really need to get my shit together and find a job.
get one's shit together and do something
Get your shit together and apologize to her.

Synonyms and how they differ

pull yourself together
This is less vulgar and focuses on controlling your emotions, while 'get your shit together' often means organizing your life or behavior.
get your act together
This is a milder, more polite version with almost the same meaning.

Practice

Choose the correct form: 'He really needs to ______ and start taking his studies seriously.'

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