Meaning & use
good listener
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Meanings
nouncountableapproving
A person who pays close attention when others speak and responds with understanding and patience.
Grammar: Used with be: she is a good listener; the plural is good listeners.
Patterns
- be a good listener
- a good listener to someone
My sister is a good listener, so everyone tells her their problems.
A good listener asks questions instead of interrupting.
He is a good listener, and I always feel better after talking to him.
nouncountableinformal
A person, especially a child or student, who hears instructions and actually follows them.
Grammar: Informal use with school or parenting contexts: he is not a good listener.
Patterns
- be a good listener
The puppy is a good listener and sits as soon as I say it.
Good listeners in class finish the project quickly.
The coach praised her as a good listener who always remembered the plan.
Word forms
| plural | good listeners |
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Common combinations
- be a good listener
- To be a good listener, put your phone away.
- a good listener and a good friend
- He was a good listener and a good friend.
- a patient, good listener
- She was a patient, good listener throughout my crisis.
- become a good listener
- You can become a good listener with practice.
- known as a good listener
- The manager is known as a good listener.
Synonyms and how they differ
- sympathetic ear
- A sympathetic ear describes a person's kind attention in a specific moment, whereas good listener describes a lasting trait.
- attentive listener
- Attentive listener stresses focus and is a little more formal than good listener, which also suggests warmth.
- confidant
- A confidant is someone you trust with secrets, which is a closer bond than being merely a good listener.
- receptive
- Receptive means open to new ideas, and is an adjective that does not by itself imply the patience of a good listener.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: good listener or hear?
good listener vs hear
To hear is simply to notice sound, while a good listener also pays attention and understands.
Practice
Which person is described as a good listener?
Choose one answer.
A good listener gives full attention and responds with care, as Dana does. The others interrupt, get distracted or avoid the topic.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “good listener”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.