Meaning & use

good listener

noun·Everydayapproving

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UK/ˌɡʊd ˈlɪsnə/
US/ˌɡʊd ˈlɪsnɚ/

Meanings

  1. nouncountableapproving

    A person who pays close attention when others speak and responds with understanding and patience.

    Grammar: Used with be: she is a good listener; the plural is good listeners.

    Patterns

    • be a good listener
    • a good listener to someone

    My sister is a good listener, so everyone tells her their problems.

    A good listener asks questions instead of interrupting.

    He is a good listener, and I always feel better after talking to him.

  2. nouncountableinformal

    A person, especially a child or student, who hears instructions and actually follows them.

    Grammar: Informal use with school or parenting contexts: he is not a good listener.

    Patterns

    • be a good listener

    The puppy is a good listener and sits as soon as I say it.

    Good listeners in class finish the project quickly.

    The coach praised her as a good listener who always remembered the plan.

Word forms

pluralgood listeners

Common combinations

be a good listener
To be a good listener, put your phone away.
a good listener and a good friend
He was a good listener and a good friend.
a patient, good listener
She was a patient, good listener throughout my crisis.
become a good listener
You can become a good listener with practice.
known as a good listener
The manager is known as a good listener.

Synonyms and how they differ

sympathetic ear
A sympathetic ear describes a person's kind attention in a specific moment, whereas good listener describes a lasting trait.
attentive listener
Attentive listener stresses focus and is a little more formal than good listener, which also suggests warmth.
confidant
A confidant is someone you trust with secrets, which is a closer bond than being merely a good listener.
receptive
Receptive means open to new ideas, and is an adjective that does not by itself imply the patience of a good listener.

Opposites

poor listenerinterrupter

Word family

listen verb
to give attention to sounds or speech
listener noun
a person who listens
listening noun
the act of paying attention to speech
attentive adjective
paying close attention

Commonly confused: good listener or hear?

good listener vs hear

To hear is simply to notice sound, while a good listener also pays attention and understands.

Practice

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