Meaning & use
gracious
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Meanings
adjectivecomparableapproving
Kind, courteous, and pleasant, especially toward someone with less power or after being annoyed or defeated.
Grammar: Before nouns and after linking verbs; often with in defeat or about criticism: gracious in defeat.
Patterns
- gracious host
- gracious in defeat
- gracious about criticism
Even after losing, she gave a gracious speech thanking the volunteers.
The nurse was gracious with frightened first-time patients.
adjectivecomparableformalliterary
Showing comfort, elegance, and generous space or style, especially in older houses or polite society.
Grammar: Often before a noun in formal descriptions: a gracious home, gracious living.
Patterns
- gracious home
- gracious living
- gracious manners
The old hotel had gracious rooms with tall windows.
Their gracious living surprised guests who expected something showier.
Common combinations
- gracious host
- A gracious host notices who has not eaten.
- gracious reply
- She sent a gracious reply despite the rude email.
- gracious in defeat
- He was gracious in defeat and praised the winner.
- gracious living
- The novel mocks gracious living built on debt.
- gracious smile
- The teacher’s gracious smile calmed the new student.
Synonyms and how they differ
- courteous
- Courteous stresses polite manners; gracious adds warmth and generosity, especially under pressure.
- kind
- Kind is broader everyday goodwill; gracious suggests polished kindness with good manners.
- magnanimous
- Magnanimous is generous toward a rival or loser, narrower and more formal than gracious.
- civil
- Civil means merely polite enough; gracious is warmer and more generous.
Opposites
Word family
- graciously adverb
- In a kind, polite, and generous way.
- graciousness noun
- The quality of being gracious.
- ungracious adjective
- Not kind or polite in manner.
- grace noun
- Polite kindness, smooth beauty, or favor; also a prayer before food.
Commonly confused: gracious or graceful?
gracious vs graceful
Graceful describes elegant movement or shape; gracious describes kind manners or generous elegance.
Practice
Even after losing, she gave a ___ speech thanking the judges and volunteers.
Choose one answer.
Gracious fits polite kindness after defeat. Grateful describes feeling thankful, graceless means lacking grace or tact, and greedy concerns wanting too much.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “gracious”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.