Meaning & use
having an argument
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Meaning
phrasefixed phrase
In the process of disagreeing with someone in an angry or serious way.
Grammar: Used as a continuous verb form; often after 'be' or 'keep': 'They are having an argument.'
Patterns
- be having an argument
- keep having an argument
My parents are having an argument about money.
I could hear them having an argument next door.
She doesn't like having an argument in front of the children.
Common combinations
- having an argument with someone
- He's having an argument with his boss.
- having an argument about something
- They're having an argument about the wedding plans.
- keep having an argument
- They keep having an argument over small things.
- stop having an argument
- Can you two stop having an argument and listen?
Synonyms and how they differ
- quarreling
- Similar, but 'quarreling' often suggests a repeated or noisy disagreement; 'having an argument' is more neutral.
- fighting
- Stronger and can include physical violence; 'having an argument' is only verbal.
Opposites
Word family
- argument noun
- A disagreement or a reason given to support an idea.
- argue verb
- To disagree in words; also to give reasons for something.
- argumentative adjective
- Often wanting to argue; fond of disagreeing.
Commonly confused: having an argument or having a discussion?
having an argument vs having a discussion
A discussion is calm and aims to share ideas; an argument is emotional and involves disagreement.
Practice
They ______ an argument about the bill when I walked in.
Choose one answer.
The past continuous 'were having' fits the ongoing action interrupted by 'when I walked in'. 'Was having' is singular and does not agree with 'they'.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “having an argument”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.