Meaning & use
having mixed feelings
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Meaning
phrasefixed phrase
Experiencing both positive and negative emotions about something at the same time.
Grammar: Used as a continuous verb form; often followed by 'about': 'having mixed feelings about the move'.
Patterns
- having mixed feelings about something
- having mixed feelings
I'm having mixed feelings about changing jobs.
She was having mixed feelings when she graduated.
They are having mixed feelings about the new policy.
Common combinations
- having mixed feelings about something
- He's having mixed feelings about moving abroad.
- having mixed feelings towards someone
- She's having mixed feelings towards her old friend.
- having mixed feelings on an issue
- Many voters are having mixed feelings on the issue.
Synonyms and how they differ
- being ambivalent
- More formal and means having opposing feelings; 'having mixed feelings' is more conversational.
- being torn
- Suggests a painful conflict between two choices; 'having mixed feelings' is milder.
Opposites
Word family
- mixed feelings noun
- A state of having both positive and negative emotions.
- feeling noun
- An emotion or physical sensation.
Commonly confused: having mixed feelings or having second thoughts?
having mixed feelings vs having second thoughts
'Having second thoughts' means starting to doubt a decision; 'having mixed feelings' means having both good and bad emotions at once.
Practice
She's ______ mixed feelings about the wedding.
Choose one answer.
After 'is' (she's = she is), we need the -ing form 'having'. The other options are not -ing forms and do not fit after 'is'.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “having mixed feelings”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.