Meaning & use

heart to heart conversation

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UK/ˌhɑːt tə ˈhɑːt ˌkɒnvəˈseɪʃən/
US/ˌhɑːrt tə ˈhɑːrt ˌkɑːnvərˈseɪʃən/

Meaning

  1. phrasecountable

    A serious, honest talk between two people about personal feelings or problems.

    Grammar: Countable: you can say 'a heart to heart conversation' or 'heart to heart conversations'. Often used with 'have' or 'need'.

    Patterns

    • have a heart to heart conversation with someone
    • need a heart to heart conversation
    • a heart to heart conversation about something

    After weeks of tension, they finally had a heart to heart conversation about their future.

    I think we need a heart to heart conversation about what's bothering you.

    She called her best friend for a heart to heart conversation after the argument.

Word forms

pluralheart to heart conversations

Common combinations

have a heart to heart conversation
We had a heart to heart conversation and cleared up the misunderstanding.
a heart to heart conversation with someone
He had a heart to heart conversation with his father about his career.
a heart to heart conversation about something
They had a heart to heart conversation about their finances.
need a heart to heart conversation
You two need a heart to heart conversation before things get worse.

Synonyms and how they differ

heart-to-heart
This is the shorter, more common form; it can be used as a noun ('We had a heart-to-heart') or an adjective ('a heart-to-heart talk').
deep conversation
This is broader and can be about ideas, not just personal feelings; it may not be as emotionally honest.
heart-to-heart talk
Very similar, but 'talk' is slightly more informal than 'conversation'.

Word family

heart-to-heart noun
An honest, personal talk.
heart-to-heart adjective
Describing a talk that is honest and personal.

Commonly confused: heart to heart conversation or heart-to-heart?

heart to heart conversation vs heart-to-heart

This is the shorter form; 'heart to heart conversation' is a longer phrase that includes the word 'conversation'. Both are correct, but 'heart-to-heart' is more common in everyday speech.

Practice

They decided to have a heart to heart ______ about their relationship.

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