Meaning & use

heart-wrenching

adjective·Academic

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UK/ˈhɑːt ˌrentʃɪŋ/
US/ˈhɑːrt ˌrentʃɪŋ/

Meaning

  1. adjectivecomparable

    Causing deep sorrow or pity, so painful to see or hear that it almost hurts physically.

    Grammar: Can go before a noun or after be: a heart-wrenching story; the news was heart-wrenching.

    Patterns

    • heart-wrenching to watch
    • a heart-wrenching story

    The film ends with a heart-wrenching goodbye at the train station.

    It was heart-wrenching to see the family leave their flooded home.

    She gave a heart-wrenching speech about losing her sister.

Word forms

comparativemore heart-wrenching
superlativemost heart-wrenching

Common combinations

heart-wrenching story
The heart-wrenching story moved the whole audience.
heart-wrenching decision
Selling the family farm was a heart-wrenching decision.
heart-wrenching scene
There is a heart-wrenching scene near the end of the movie.
absolutely heart-wrenching
The reunion was absolutely heart-wrenching.
heart-wrenching to watch
It is heart-wrenching to watch a friend struggle like that.

Synonyms and how they differ

heartbreaking
Heartbreaking is the most common equivalent, while heart-wrenching suggests a stronger, more twisting pain.
harrowing
Harrowing stresses fear and distress during an ordeal, not just sadness.
poignant
Poignant is gentler and mixes sadness with tenderness, so it is less intense than heart-wrenching.
distressing
Distressing is a plain, general word and lacks the emotional weight of heart-wrenching.

Opposites

Word family

wrench verb
to twist or pull something violently
heartbreak noun
overwhelming sadness, especially after a loss
heartbreaking adjective
causing great sadness
heart-wrenchingly adverb
in a way that causes deep sorrow

Commonly confused: heart-wrenching or heart-warming?

heart-wrenching vs heart-warming

Heart-warming describes something that makes you feel happy and touched, which is the opposite mood of heart-wrenching.

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