Meaning & use
heart-wrenching
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Meaning
adjectivecomparable
Causing deep sorrow or pity, so painful to see or hear that it almost hurts physically.
Grammar: Can go before a noun or after be: a heart-wrenching story; the news was heart-wrenching.
Patterns
- heart-wrenching to watch
- a heart-wrenching story
The film ends with a heart-wrenching goodbye at the train station.
It was heart-wrenching to see the family leave their flooded home.
She gave a heart-wrenching speech about losing her sister.
Word forms
| comparative | more heart-wrenching |
|---|---|
| superlative | most heart-wrenching |
Common combinations
- heart-wrenching story
- The heart-wrenching story moved the whole audience.
- heart-wrenching decision
- Selling the family farm was a heart-wrenching decision.
- heart-wrenching scene
- There is a heart-wrenching scene near the end of the movie.
- absolutely heart-wrenching
- The reunion was absolutely heart-wrenching.
- heart-wrenching to watch
- It is heart-wrenching to watch a friend struggle like that.
Synonyms and how they differ
- heartbreaking
- Heartbreaking is the most common equivalent, while heart-wrenching suggests a stronger, more twisting pain.
- harrowing
- Harrowing stresses fear and distress during an ordeal, not just sadness.
- poignant
- Poignant is gentler and mixes sadness with tenderness, so it is less intense than heart-wrenching.
- distressing
- Distressing is a plain, general word and lacks the emotional weight of heart-wrenching.
Opposites
Word family
- wrench verb
- to twist or pull something violently
- heartbreak noun
- overwhelming sadness, especially after a loss
- heartbreaking adjective
- causing great sadness
- heart-wrenchingly adverb
- in a way that causes deep sorrow
Commonly confused: heart-wrenching or heart-warming?
heart-wrenching vs heart-warming
Heart-warming describes something that makes you feel happy and touched, which is the opposite mood of heart-wrenching.
Practice
Which situation would most naturally be called heart-wrenching?
Choose one answer.
Heart-wrenching is kept for genuinely painful, sad situations such as losing a pet. The other options describe minor annoyances.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “heart-wrenching”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.