Meaning & use

infantilising

adjective, verb·Advanceddisapprovingformal

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UK/ɪnˈfæntɪlaɪzɪŋ/
US/ɪnˈfæntəlaɪzɪŋ/

“infantilising” is a form of “infantilize”. See that entry for the full set of meanings.

Usage warning: this word is disapproving. It shows a negative opinion, so take care with who and what you use it about.

Meanings

  1. adjectivebefore a noundisapprovingformal

    Treating someone as if they were a child and could not decide for themselves.

    Grammar: Comes before the noun it describes: 'an infantilising attitude'.

    Patterns

    • infantilising attitude
    • infantilising treatment
    • infantilising language

    The staff complained about the manager's infantilising tone in meetings.

    Critics called the new rules an infantilising attempt to control grown adults.

    She disliked the infantilising way the forms explained the simplest tasks.

  2. verbtransitivedisapprovingformal

    The present participle of 'infantilize': making someone behave or feel like a child.

    Grammar: Part of the verb phrase; takes an object, as in 'stop infantilising your staff'.

    Patterns

    • be infantilising someone
    • stop infantilising someone
    • infantilising a whole group

    By answering every question for her, he was infantilising his daughter.

    The ads are infantilising women by suggesting they cannot choose for themselves.

Word forms

third person singularinfantilizes
past tenseinfantilized
past participleinfantilized
-ing forminfantilizing
British -ing forminfantilising

Common combinations

infantilising attitude
His infantilising attitude made the team feel they were back at school.
deeply infantilising
The article called the policy deeply infantilising.
accused of infantilising
The government was accused of infantilising the public.
infantilising effect
Constant supervision has an infantilising effect on workers.

Synonyms and how they differ

patronizing
Suggests talking down to someone; 'infantilising' is stronger and means treating them as a child.
belittling
Means making someone seem unimportant; 'infantilising' focuses on age and childishness.

Opposites

Word family

infantilize verb
To treat someone as a child.
infantile adjective
Childish or very immature.
infant noun
A baby or very young child.

Commonly confused: infantilising or infantile?

infantilising vs infantile

Describes someone who behaves childishly; 'infantilising' describes someone who makes another person feel like a child.

Practice

By doing everything for him, she was ______ her teenage son.

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