Meaning & use

killjoy

noun·Everydayinformaldisapproving

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UK/ˈkɪldʒɔɪ/
US/ˈkɪldʒɔɪ/
Usage warning: this word is disapproving. It shows a negative opinion, so take care with who and what you use it about.

Meanings

  1. nouncountableinformaldisapproving

    Someone who spoils other people's fun, often by being serious, negative or strict.

    Grammar: Takes a plural: killjoys; used as a criticism.

    Patterns

    • don't be a killjoy

    Don't be a killjoy; let the kids stay up late for once.

    He was such a killjoy that no one invited him to parties.

    The teacher played the killjoy by canceling the picnic.

  2. nouncountablehumorous

    A person who always points out problems and rules, whether or not they are wanted.

    Grammar: Often with a mildly humorous tone.

    Patterns

    • play the killjoy

    Sorry to play the killjoy, but the sign says no music after ten.

    My sister is the family killjoy on diets.

    I hate to be a killjoy, but we need to leave.

Word forms

pluralkilljoys

Common combinations

don't be a killjoy
Don't be a killjoy, come dance with us.
such a killjoy
You're such a killjoy about holidays.
play the killjoy
I hate to play the killjoy, but we're out of money.
office killjoy
The office killjoy banned loud music.
call someone a killjoy
They called him a killjoy for ending the party.

Synonyms and how they differ

spoilsport
Spoilsport is the closest synonym but more often used for someone who refuses to join in a game.
party pooper
Party pooper is playful and especially used for someone who leaves or sulks at a party.
wet blanket
Wet blanket stresses someone dampening a mood with gloom.
curmudgeon
Curmudgeon is a grumpy person in general, not just someone who ruins fun.

Opposites

Word family

joy noun
a feeling of great happiness
joyless adjective
without happiness
kill verb
to cause something to end

Commonly confused: killjoy or spoilsport?

killjoy vs spoilsport

Spoilsport is nearly the same, but spoils a game or fun by refusing to take part.

Practice

My brother is a bit of a ___; he always points out how much a party will cost.

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