Meaning & use

kindly

adverb, adjective·Everyday

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UK/ˈkaɪndli/
US/ˈkaɪndli/

Meanings

  1. adverb

    In a warm, caring, and thoughtful way toward other people.

    Grammar: Used to describe how an action is done; it often comes before the verb or at the end of a clause.

    Patterns

    • treat someone kindly
    • speak kindly to someone
    • kindly offer something

    She smiled kindly at the nervous new student.

    The nurse spoke kindly to the frightened child.

    He kindly offered to carry her heavy bags.

  2. adverbformalold-fashioned

    Used in polite requests or questions, often when asking someone to do something.

    Grammar: This use is formal and slightly old-fashioned; it often comes before the verb in a request.

    Patterns

    • kindly do something
    • would you kindly do something

    Would you kindly close the window?

    Kindly wait here until your name is called.

    Passengers are kindly requested to keep their seats.

  3. adjectivebefore a noun

    Having a gentle, friendly, and generous nature, especially in an older person.

    Grammar: Used before a noun, as in 'a kindly old man'; it is not usually used after a verb like 'be'.

    Patterns

    • a kindly old man
    • a kindly face
    • a kindly smile

    The kindly old man gave the children some sweets.

    She had a kindly face that made everyone feel at ease.

    Our kindly neighbor often helps us with the garden.

Word forms

comparativekindlier
superlativekindliest

Common combinations

treat someone kindly
The staff treated us kindly during our stay.
speak kindly
He always speaks kindly about his former teacher.
kindly offer
She kindly offered to drive me to the airport.
kindly smile
The doctor gave me a kindly smile and told me not to worry.
kindly request
The hotel kindly requests that guests do not smoke in the rooms.

Synonyms and how they differ

warmly
Suggests friendly, affectionate behavior; 'kindly' is more about thoughtful care for others' needs.
gently
Focuses on being soft and careful, not necessarily on being thoughtful or generous.
considerately
Emphasizes thinking about other people's feelings; 'kindly' is a more general word for warm behavior.
benevolently
Formal and literary; describes a powerful person acting in a generous way, while 'kindly' is everyday and equal.

Opposites

unkindlyharshlycruelly

Word family

kind adjective
Caring and generous toward others; the base adjective.
kindness noun
The quality of being kind, or a kind act.
kindhearted adjective
Having a naturally warm and generous character.

Commonly confused: kindly or kind? kindly or kind of?

kindly vs kind

As an adjective, 'kind' means caring and helpful; 'kindly' as an adjective is mainly used before nouns like 'kindly old man' and sounds gentler or more old-fashioned.

kindly vs kind of

'Kind of' is an informal phrase meaning 'a little' or 'rather', while 'kindly' is a separate word meaning in a caring way.

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