Meaning & use
make upset
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Meanings
phrasetransitive
to cause someone to feel unhappy or worried
Grammar: Takes an object between make and upset: make someone upset. The object can be a noun or pronoun.
Patterns
- make someone upset
- make me upset
- make someone upset about something
The bad news made her upset.
His constant criticism made me upset.
Don't make your mother upset by forgetting her birthday.
phrasetransitive
to cause someone to feel annoyed or angry
Grammar: Similar to the first sense but focuses on anger rather than sadness. Often used with 'by' to show the cause.
Patterns
- make someone upset by doing something
- make someone upset with someone
She made him upset by arriving late again.
The referee's decision made the players upset.
Common combinations
- make someone upset
- The constant noise made the neighbors upset.
- make someone upset about something
- He made his parents upset about his poor grades.
- make someone upset by doing something
- She made her friend upset by cancelling at the last minute.
- make someone upset with someone
- Don't make me upset with you over such a small thing.
Synonyms and how they differ
- upset
- As a verb, 'upset' means to make someone unhappy, but it is more direct and often used in formal writing: 'The news upset her.'
- distress
- Stronger and more formal than 'make upset'; it suggests serious emotional pain.
- annoy
- Focuses on mild anger rather than sadness; 'make upset' can mean either, depending on context.
Opposites
Commonly confused: make upset or upset (adjective)?
make upset vs upset (adjective)
The adjective 'upset' describes the feeling: 'She is upset.' The phrase 'make upset' describes the action that causes it.
Practice
Which sentence uses 'make upset' correctly?
Choose one answer.
The correct order is make + object + upset: 'made her upset'. Option A puts the object after 'upset', which is wrong. Option C adds 'to', which is not used. Option D omits the object.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “make upset”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.