Meaning & use

nerves are frayed

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UK/ˌnɜːvz ə ˈfreɪd/
US/ˌnɝːvz ər ˈfreɪd/

Meaning

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    In a state of tension or irritation, especially after a long or difficult situation.

    Grammar: Used as a clause or after 'be': My nerves are frayed. It can also describe a group: Tempers are short and nerves are frayed.

    Patterns

    • someone's nerves are frayed
    • nerves are frayed after something
    • frayed nerves

    After three hours of delays at the airport, everyone's nerves were frayed.

    By the end of the meeting, her nerves were frayed and she just wanted to go home.

    The team had frayed nerves after losing the championship in the final seconds.

Common combinations

nerves are frayed
After the argument, his nerves were frayed for the rest of the day.
frayed nerves
The constant noise left her with frayed nerves.
nerves are frayed from
Their nerves were frayed from weeks of uncertainty.
tempers are frayed
When tempers are frayed, it's best to take a break.

Synonyms and how they differ

on edge
Describes a person feeling tense and easily upset; 'nerves are frayed' focuses on the nerves themselves being worn down.
stressed
A more general word for feeling pressure; 'nerves are frayed' suggests irritation and exhaustion from a specific ordeal.
jittery
Means nervous and unable to relax, often physically; 'nerves are frayed' is more about emotional strain.

Opposites

Word family

fray verb
To become worn or ragged, or (of nerves/tempers) to become strained.
frayed adjective
Worn at the edges; also used of nerves or tempers that are strained.

Commonly confused: nerves are frayed or nervous?

nerves are frayed vs nervous

Means anxious or easily frightened. 'Nerves are frayed' is a set phrase about tension after a difficult experience, not a general trait.

Practice

After the marathon, the runners' nerves were ______ and they snapped at each other.

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