Meaning & use
nerves are frayed
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Meaning
phrasefixed phrase
In a state of tension or irritation, especially after a long or difficult situation.
Grammar: Used as a clause or after 'be': My nerves are frayed. It can also describe a group: Tempers are short and nerves are frayed.
Patterns
- someone's nerves are frayed
- nerves are frayed after something
- frayed nerves
After three hours of delays at the airport, everyone's nerves were frayed.
By the end of the meeting, her nerves were frayed and she just wanted to go home.
The team had frayed nerves after losing the championship in the final seconds.
Common combinations
- nerves are frayed
- After the argument, his nerves were frayed for the rest of the day.
- frayed nerves
- The constant noise left her with frayed nerves.
- nerves are frayed from
- Their nerves were frayed from weeks of uncertainty.
- tempers are frayed
- When tempers are frayed, it's best to take a break.
Synonyms and how they differ
- on edge
- Describes a person feeling tense and easily upset; 'nerves are frayed' focuses on the nerves themselves being worn down.
- stressed
- A more general word for feeling pressure; 'nerves are frayed' suggests irritation and exhaustion from a specific ordeal.
- jittery
- Means nervous and unable to relax, often physically; 'nerves are frayed' is more about emotional strain.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: nerves are frayed or nervous?
nerves are frayed vs nervous
Means anxious or easily frightened. 'Nerves are frayed' is a set phrase about tension after a difficult experience, not a general trait.
Practice
After the marathon, the runners' nerves were ______ and they snapped at each other.
Choose one answer.
'Frayed' is the correct adjective in this fixed phrase. 'Fraying' would suggest the process is ongoing, and 'fry' is unrelated.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “nerves are frayed”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.