Meaning & use
not polite
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Meanings
phrasefixed phrase
Behaving in a way that is rude or shows no respect for other people.
Grammar: Used after linking verbs like 'be', 'seem', 'sound', or 'look'. It describes a person's behavior, not a thing.
Patterns
- be not polite
- it is not polite to do something
- not polite to someone
It is not polite to interrupt when someone else is speaking.
He was not polite to the waiter, and everyone at the table felt uncomfortable.
She gave a not polite reply, which surprised everyone.
phrasefixed phrase
Not showing good manners in a particular situation or culture.
Grammar: Often used with 'to' plus an infinitive: 'not polite to ask'.
Patterns
- not polite to do something
- not polite in a situation
In some cultures, it is not polite to ask someone's age.
It's not polite to talk with your mouth full.
Wearing shoes inside the house is not polite in many countries.
Common combinations
- not polite to ask
- It's not polite to ask how much money someone earns.
- not polite to interrupt
- It's not polite to interrupt when someone is telling a story.
- not polite to stare
- It's not polite to stare at people on the bus.
- not polite to point
- It's not polite to point at someone in public.
- not polite to talk with your mouth full
- My mother always said it's not polite to talk with your mouth full.
Synonyms and how they differ
- impolite
- This is the more formal, single-word adjective; 'not polite' is more common in everyday speech.
- rude
- Stronger than 'not polite'; 'rude' suggests deliberate bad behavior, while 'not polite' can be milder or accidental.
- discourteous
- Very formal and rather old-fashioned; 'not polite' is the everyday choice.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: not polite or impolite?
not polite vs impolite
This is one word and slightly formal; 'not polite' is two words and more conversational.
Practice
It is not polite ___ your phone during a job interview.
Choose one answer.
After the phrase 'it is not polite', we use the infinitive with 'to': 'to check'. The -ing form 'checking' would need a different structure, such as 'It is not polite to be checking' (less natural). 'Check' and 'checked' do not fit the grammar.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “not polite”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.