Meaning & use
obsequiously
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Meaning
adverbnot comparable
In a way that shows too much eagerness to please or obey a more powerful person, usually to win their favor.
Grammar: Modifies a verb: he bowed obsequiously.
Patterns
- behave obsequiously
- smile obsequiously at someone
The assistant laughed obsequiously at every one of the director's weak jokes.
He bowed obsequiously as the minister walked past.
The waiter hovered obsequiously around the wealthy guests, refilling glasses before they were half empty.
Common combinations
- smile obsequiously
- The salesman smiled obsequiously and offered us a free upgrade.
- bow obsequiously
- The courtiers bowed obsequiously whenever the king entered.
- fawn obsequiously
- Reporters fawned obsequiously over the celebrity guest.
- agree obsequiously
- He agreed obsequiously with everything his boss suggested.
- flatter obsequiously
- She flattered the judge obsequiously before making her request.
Synonyms and how they differ
- servilely
- Servilely stresses a slave-like lack of dignity, while obsequiously stresses the eager flattery used to gain favor.
- sycophantically
- Sycophantically focuses on praising powerful people for personal gain, and is a little more about speech than obsequiously.
- fawningly
- Fawningly is plainer and more common, and suggests gushing attention rather than the bowing, deferential manner of obsequiously.
- submissively
- Submissively can be neutral or even sympathetic, whereas obsequiously always criticizes the motive.
Opposites
Word family
- obsequious adjective
- too eager to please or obey
- obsequiousness noun
- the quality of being overly eager to please
Commonly confused: obsequiously or obliviously?
obsequiously vs obliviously
Obliviously means without noticing something; it has nothing to do with flattery, though the two words look somewhat alike.
Practice
The new intern praised every idea the manager had, nodding ______ even when the ideas were clearly flawed.
Choose one answer.
Obsequiously fits because the intern is flattering a superior to win favor. Candidly would mean honestly, which contradicts praising flawed ideas.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “obsequiously”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.