Meaning & use
pay my respects funeral
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Meaning
phraseidiom
To attend a funeral or visit a grieving family in order to show sympathy and honor the dead person.
Grammar: Used as a fixed phrase; you can say 'pay my/your/his respects' but not 'pay respects' without a possessive.
Patterns
- pay one's respects at a funeral
- pay one's respects to someone
I went to pay my respects at my neighbor's funeral yesterday.
She flew home to pay her respects to her grandfather.
Common combinations
- pay one's last respects
- Hundreds lined the street to pay their last respects.
- pay respects to the family
- We paid our respects to the family before leaving.
- go to pay one's respects
- He went to the funeral home to pay his respects.
Synonyms and how they differ
- offer condolences
- Focuses on expressing sympathy to the family, often without attending the funeral itself.
- mourn
- Means to feel or show deep sadness for someone who died; it does not necessarily involve going to a funeral.
Commonly confused: pay my respects funeral or pay your last respects?
pay my respects funeral vs pay your last respects
This is a stronger, more final version, usually used only at the funeral or burial itself.
Practice
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The fixed phrase requires a possessive (my, your, his) and the plural 'respects'; you pay respects at a funeral, not to a funeral.
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