Meaning & use
pick on
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Meanings
verbphrasal verbdisapproving
To treat someone unfairly and repeatedly by criticizing, teasing or blaming them in particular.
Grammar: Takes an object after on and cannot be split: they pick on him.
Patterns
- pick on someone
- be picked on by someone
Older boys used to pick on him because he was small.
Why do you always pick on me when something goes wrong?
She felt the manager was picking on her in every meeting.
verbphrasal verbinformal
To choose a particular person or thing from a group, often for a task or a negative reason.
Grammar: Takes an object; choosing someone for something: picked on him to carry the bag.
Patterns
- pick on someone to do something
The teacher picked on Leo to answer the hardest question.
Of all the houses on the street, burglars picked on ours.
Why did they pick on you for the night shift?
Word forms
| third person singular | picks on |
|---|---|
| past tense | picked on |
| past participle | picked on |
| -ing form | picking on |
Common combinations
- constantly pick on
- His classmates constantly picked on him.
- pick on someone smaller
- Don't pick on someone smaller than you.
- get picked on
- She got picked on at her first school.
- stop picking on
- Stop picking on your little brother.
- unfairly picked on
- He felt unfairly picked on by the coach.
Synonyms and how they differ
- bully
- Bully suggests physical or lasting intimidation, while pick on can mean milder, more everyday unfairness.
- victimize
- Victimize is formal and stresses harm done to a target, whereas pick on is conversational.
- single out
- Single out is neutral and may be praise or blame; pick on is almost always negative.
- tease
- Tease can be playful and affectionate, but pick on carries real unfairness.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: pick on or pick at? pick on or pick up on?
pick on vs pick at
Pick at means to eat a little reluctantly or touch something lightly, not to treat a person unfairly.
pick on vs pick up on
Pick up on means to notice something, which is unrelated to unfair treatment.
Practice
The older kids kept ______ the new student until a teacher stepped in.
Choose one answer.
Picking on means repeatedly treating someone unfairly. Picking at is about eating or touching, picking up is lifting or learning, and picking out is choosing.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “pick on”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.