Meaning & use

pick on

verb·Everydayinformal

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UK/pɪk ˈɒn/
US/pɪk ˈɑːn/

Meanings

  1. verbphrasal verbdisapproving

    To treat someone unfairly and repeatedly by criticizing, teasing or blaming them in particular.

    Grammar: Takes an object after on and cannot be split: they pick on him.

    Patterns

    • pick on someone
    • be picked on by someone

    Older boys used to pick on him because he was small.

    Why do you always pick on me when something goes wrong?

    She felt the manager was picking on her in every meeting.

  2. verbphrasal verbinformal

    To choose a particular person or thing from a group, often for a task or a negative reason.

    Grammar: Takes an object; choosing someone for something: picked on him to carry the bag.

    Patterns

    • pick on someone to do something

    The teacher picked on Leo to answer the hardest question.

    Of all the houses on the street, burglars picked on ours.

    Why did they pick on you for the night shift?

Word forms

third person singularpicks on
past tensepicked on
past participlepicked on
-ing formpicking on

Common combinations

constantly pick on
His classmates constantly picked on him.
pick on someone smaller
Don't pick on someone smaller than you.
get picked on
She got picked on at her first school.
stop picking on
Stop picking on your little brother.
unfairly picked on
He felt unfairly picked on by the coach.

Synonyms and how they differ

bully
Bully suggests physical or lasting intimidation, while pick on can mean milder, more everyday unfairness.
victimize
Victimize is formal and stresses harm done to a target, whereas pick on is conversational.
single out
Single out is neutral and may be praise or blame; pick on is almost always negative.
tease
Tease can be playful and affectionate, but pick on carries real unfairness.

Opposites

stand up fordefend

Word family

pick verb
to choose or select
picker noun
someone who picks, as in a fruit picker
picked adjective
chosen or selected

Commonly confused: pick on or pick at? pick on or pick up on?

pick on vs pick at

Pick at means to eat a little reluctantly or touch something lightly, not to treat a person unfairly.

pick on vs pick up on

Pick up on means to notice something, which is unrelated to unfair treatment.

Practice

The older kids kept ______ the new student until a teacher stepped in.

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