Meaning & use

picket fence dream

noun·AdvancedAmericanfigurative

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UK/ˈpɪkɪt ˈfens driːm/
US/ˈpɪkɪt ˈfens driːm/

Meaning

  1. nouncountable

    The ideal of a settled, conventional family life, usually imagined as a married couple with children in their own house with a yard.

    Grammar: Usually singular with the or a possessive: the picket fence dream, their picket fence dream.

    Patterns

    • chase the picket fence dream
    • live the picket fence dream

    For their parents, the picket fence dream meant a small house, two kids and a dog.

    Rising house prices have put the picket fence dream out of reach for many young couples.

    He gave up the picket fence dream and chose a life of travel instead.

Word forms

pluralpicket fence dreams

Common combinations

chase the picket fence dream
They worked two jobs each to chase the picket fence dream.
live the picket fence dream
On the surface, they seemed to be living the picket fence dream.
give up the picket fence dream
She gave up the picket fence dream after the divorce.
the classic picket fence dream
The classic picket fence dream no longer fits everyone's idea of happiness.
a far cry from the picket fence dream
Their cramped rented flat was a far cry from the picket fence dream.

Synonyms and how they differ

American Dream
It is broader and covers success and prosperity of any kind, while the picket fence dream focuses on home and family.
domestic bliss
It names the happiness of home life itself instead of the goal of reaching it.
suburban ideal
It stresses the suburban setting and sounds more like social commentary.

Word family

picket fence noun
a fence made of upright pointed boards
picket noun
a pointed stake in a fence
white picket fence noun
the common symbol of the suburban home ideal

Commonly confused: picket fence dream or picket line?

picket fence dream vs picket line

A picket line is a group of striking workers protesting outside a workplace, and has nothing to do with the home-and-family ideal.

Practice

Which person is most clearly pursuing the picket fence dream?

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