Meaning & use

pinky promise

noun, verb, phrase·Everydayinformal

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UK/ˈpɪŋki ˈprɒmɪs/
US/ˈpɪŋki ˈprɑːmɪs/

Meanings

  1. nouncountableinformal

    A serious promise made by linking the little fingers of two people.

    Grammar: Often used with a: make a pinky promise.

    Patterns

    • make a pinky promise
    • a pinky promise to someone

    She made a pinky promise to keep the secret.

    The twins sealed the deal with a pinky promise.

    A pinky promise is something you can't break.

  2. verbtransitive or intransitiveinformal

    To promise something by linking little fingers with someone.

    Grammar: Often with a that clause or to: pinky promise me.

    Patterns

    • pinky promise someone something
    • pinky promise that something

    Pinky promise you won't tell anyone.

    He pinky promised to come to the show.

    Will you pinky promise me that you'll call?

  3. phrasefixed phraseinformal

    Said to show that you really mean what you promise.

    Grammar: Often said on its own at the end of a sentence.

    I'll be there on time, pinky promise.

    I won't forget this time, pinky promise.

    Pinky promise, I will pay you back.

Word forms

pluralpinky promises
third person singularpinky promises
past tensepinky promised
-ing formpinky promising

Common combinations

make a pinky promise
They made a pinky promise to stay friends.
seal it with a pinky promise
Let's seal it with a pinky promise.
break a pinky promise
You can't break a pinky promise.
pinky promise to
He pinky promised to keep the secret.
swear a pinky promise
She swore a pinky promise to her little sister.

Synonyms and how they differ

vow
Vow is formal and solemn, while a pinky promise is playful and casual.
oath
Oath is serious and often legal, unlike the casual pinky promise.
cross my heart
Cross my heart is a spoken promise that works like a pinky promise but uses no gesture.
word
Word, as in I give you my word, is a plain promise, without the child-like gesture.

Opposites

Word family

pinky noun
the smallest finger on the hand
promise noun
a statement that you will certainly do something
promise verb
to say you will definitely do something
pinkie noun
another spelling of pinky

Commonly confused: pinky promise or pinkie swear?

pinky promise vs pinkie swear

Pinkie swear means almost the same thing and is also used in British English.

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