Meaning & use
pinky promise
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Meanings
nouncountableinformal
A serious promise made by linking the little fingers of two people.
Grammar: Often used with a: make a pinky promise.
Patterns
- make a pinky promise
- a pinky promise to someone
She made a pinky promise to keep the secret.
The twins sealed the deal with a pinky promise.
A pinky promise is something you can't break.
verbtransitive or intransitiveinformal
To promise something by linking little fingers with someone.
Grammar: Often with a that clause or to: pinky promise me.
Patterns
- pinky promise someone something
- pinky promise that something
Pinky promise you won't tell anyone.
He pinky promised to come to the show.
Will you pinky promise me that you'll call?
phrasefixed phraseinformal
Said to show that you really mean what you promise.
Grammar: Often said on its own at the end of a sentence.
I'll be there on time, pinky promise.
I won't forget this time, pinky promise.
Pinky promise, I will pay you back.
Word forms
| plural | pinky promises |
|---|---|
| third person singular | pinky promises |
| past tense | pinky promised |
| -ing form | pinky promising |
Common combinations
- make a pinky promise
- They made a pinky promise to stay friends.
- seal it with a pinky promise
- Let's seal it with a pinky promise.
- break a pinky promise
- You can't break a pinky promise.
- pinky promise to
- He pinky promised to keep the secret.
- swear a pinky promise
- She swore a pinky promise to her little sister.
Synonyms and how they differ
- vow
- Vow is formal and solemn, while a pinky promise is playful and casual.
- oath
- Oath is serious and often legal, unlike the casual pinky promise.
- cross my heart
- Cross my heart is a spoken promise that works like a pinky promise but uses no gesture.
- word
- Word, as in I give you my word, is a plain promise, without the child-like gesture.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: pinky promise or pinkie swear?
pinky promise vs pinkie swear
Pinkie swear means almost the same thing and is also used in British English.
Practice
Which situation best fits a pinky promise?
Choose one answer.
A pinky promise is a playful, personal promise between friends. The other situations are formal or legal.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “pinky promise”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.