Meaning & use

popping the question

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UK/ˈpɒpɪŋ ðə ˈkwestʃən/
US/ˈpɑːpɪŋ ðə ˈkwestʃən/

“popping the question” is a form of “pop the question”.

Meaning

  1. phraseidiominformalhumorous

    Asking someone to marry you, a lively way of saying you are proposing.

    Grammar: Fixed phrase with the; the subject is the person doing the asking: he is going to pop the question.

    Patterns

    • pop the question to someone
    • about to pop the question

    He is popping the question at dinner on Saturday, and he has already bought the ring.

    She was nervous about popping the question on the beach.

    Everyone knew Tom was planning on popping the question soon.

Word forms

base formpop the question
third person singularpops the question
past tensepopped the question
-ing formpopping the question

Common combinations

finally pop the question
After six years, he finally popped the question.
pop the question to your partner
She decided to pop the question to her partner on holiday.
plan to pop the question
He plans to pop the question at sunset.
ready to pop the question
I think he is ready to pop the question.
pop the question on one knee
He popped the question on one knee in front of the whole family.

Synonyms and how they differ

propose
It is the standard neutral word, while pop the question sounds more playful and casual.
ask for her hand
It sounds traditional and old-fashioned, and suggests asking a parent for permission.
get down on one knee
It is a figurative expression that stresses the romantic gesture.

Opposites

turn down a proposal

Word family

pop verb
to make a short, sudden sound or movement
question noun
something asked to get an answer
proposal noun
an offer or request for marriage
propose verb
to ask someone to marry you

Commonly confused: popping the question or pop a question?

popping the question vs pop a question

In the idiom, the question is fixed as the question, so pop a question would just mean casually asking something.

Practice

Last night he took her to the park and popped the question. What happened?

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