Meaning & use

primly

adverb·Advanceddisapproving

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UK/ˈprɪm.li/
US/ˈprɪm.li/
Usage warning: this word is disapproving. It shows a negative opinion, so take care with who and what you use it about.

Meanings

  1. adverbnot comparable

    In a stiff, very proper way that shows disapproval of anything rude or improper.

    Grammar: Modifies verbs of speech and posture: she sat primly.

    Patterns

    • sit primly
    • say something primly

    She folded her hands primly in her lap.

    "That is not appropriate," he said primly.

    The librarian primly corrected our whispering.

  2. adverbnot comparableold-fashioned

    In a neat and tidy way, with careful attention to appearance.

    Grammar: Slightly old-fashioned.

    Patterns

    • dressed primly

    The little girl was dressed primly in a white collar.

    The cottage garden was primly laid out in straight rows.

    He parted his hair primly to one side.

Common combinations

sit primly
She sat primly on the edge of the sofa.
say primly
"I would never do such a thing," she said primly.
purse her lips primly
She pursed her lips primly at the joke.
primly dressed
The schoolteacher was primly dressed in gray.
smile primly
He smiled primly and said nothing.

Synonyms and how they differ

demurely
Demurely suggests modest, quiet shyness and is gentler, while primly adds stiff disapproval.
stiffly
Stiffly describes rigid manner in general, whereas primly specifically implies concern for propriety.
properly
Properly is neutral and means correctly, while primly has a slightly critical, fussy tone.

Opposites

casuallybawdily

Word family

prim adjective
stiffly formal and easily shocked
primness noun
the quality of being prim
prissy adjective
fussy about rules and manners

Commonly confused: primly or primarily?

primly vs primarily

Primarily means mainly, and has no connection to stiff behavior.

Practice

The aunt sat ___ in her chair, frowning at the loud jokes.

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