Meaning & use
relationship on the rocks
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Meaning
phraseidiominformal
A romantic relationship that is having serious problems and is likely to fail.
Grammar: Used after 'be' or 'seem': Their marriage is on the rocks. The phrase is fixed; don't change 'the' to 'a'.
Patterns
- be on the rocks
- a relationship on the rocks
- a marriage on the rocks
After ten years together, their relationship is on the rocks.
She told me her parents' marriage was on the rocks, so they were seeing a counselor.
The celebrity couple's relationship is on the rocks again, according to the newspapers.
Common combinations
- marriage on the rocks
- Their marriage is on the rocks, but they're trying to work things out.
- relationship is on the rocks
- Everyone could tell that their relationship was on the rocks.
- on the rocks again
- They broke up last year, got back together, and now they're on the rocks again.
- put a relationship on the rocks
- His constant traveling put their relationship on the rocks.
Synonyms and how they differ
- in trouble
- More general and can refer to any kind of problem; less specific to romance.
- troubled
- More formal and can describe a person or situation, not just a relationship.
- falling apart
- Stronger; it suggests the relationship is almost over.
Opposites
Word family
- rocky adjective
- Full of problems or difficulties; a rocky relationship is one with many ups and downs.
Commonly confused: relationship on the rocks or on the rocks?
relationship on the rocks vs on the rocks
When talking about a drink, 'on the rocks' means served with ice. Context makes the meaning clear.
Practice
Which sentence uses 'relationship on the rocks' correctly?
Choose one answer.
Option B correctly describes a long-term romantic relationship in serious trouble. Option An is too soon for such a serious problem; option C uses it for a friendship, which is not typical; option D is about business, not romance.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “relationship on the rocks”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.