Meaning & use

self-coddling

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UK/ˌself ˈkɒdlɪŋ/
US/ˌself ˈkɑːdlɪŋ/
Usage warning: this word is disapproving. It shows a negative opinion, so take care with who and what you use it about.

Meaning

  1. noununcountable

    The act of treating yourself too gently and protectively, avoiding effort or discomfort.

    Grammar: Uncountable; no plural. Often used after verbs like 'indulge in' or 'accuse of'.

    Patterns

    • accuse someone of self-coddling
    • indulge in self-coddling

    His constant self-coddling prevented him from growing.

    Critics say the program encourages self-coddling instead of resilience.

    She accused herself of self-coddling when she skipped the hard workout.

Common combinations

a form of self-coddling
Taking a day off is fine, but a week of self-coddling is too much.
self-coddling behavior
His self-coddling behavior annoyed his teammates.
indulge in self-coddling
After the failure, he indulged in self-coddling for a month.

Synonyms and how they differ

self-indulgence
Self-indulgence is broader and often about pleasures like food or shopping; self-coddling is more about avoiding challenges.
overprotectiveness
This usually refers to protecting others, not yourself; self-coddling is specifically about yourself.

Opposites

Word family

coddle verb
To treat someone too gently and protectively.
coddled adjective
Treated too gently; overprotected.

Commonly confused: self-coddling or cuddling?

self-coddling vs cuddling

Cuddling means holding someone close affectionately; self-coddling is about being too soft on yourself.

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