Meaning & use

self-recrimination

noun·Advancedformal

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UK/ˌself rɪˌkrɪmɪˈneɪʃən/
US/ˌsɛlf rɪˌkrɪməˈneɪʃən/

Meaning

  1. nouncountable or uncountableformal

    The act of angrily blaming yourself for something that went wrong.

    Grammar: Uncountable as a state: lost in self-recrimination. Plural when listing thoughts: bitter self-recriminations.

    Patterns

    • indulge in self-recrimination
    • a spiral of self-recrimination

    After the accident he spent weeks in self-recrimination.

    Her diary was full of bitter self-recriminations about the missed chance.

    There is no point in self-recrimination now; let's fix it.

Word forms

pluralself-recriminations

Common combinations

bitter self-recrimination
His voice was full of bitter self-recrimination.
wallow in self-recrimination
She tried not to wallow in self-recrimination after the defeat.
spiral of self-recrimination
A spiral of self-recrimination kept him awake all night.
stop the self-recrimination
Please stop the self-recrimination; it wasn't your fault.

Synonyms and how they differ

self-blame
Self-blame is plainer and milder, while self-recrimination suggests angry, repeated accusations.
self-reproach
Self-reproach is quieter and often a single feeling of guilt, but self-recrimination suggests ongoing fierce criticism.
remorse
Remorse is deep regret for a wrong done, with no focus on blaming yourself over and over.

Opposites

self-forgiveness

Word family

recrimination noun
an angry accusation against someone who has accused you
recriminate verb
to accuse in return
recriminatory adjective
full of angry blame

Commonly confused: self-recrimination or self-reflection?

self-recrimination vs self-reflection

Self-reflection is calm thinking about yourself, but self-recrimination is harsh blame.

Practice

After losing the contract, Dan spent days in ___, repeating that it was all his fault.

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