Meaning & use

self-surrender

noun·Advancedformalliterary

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UK/ˌself səˈrendə/
US/ˌself səˈrendər/

Meanings

  1. noununcountableformalliterary

    The act of giving up control of your life or will to a higher power, cause, or another person.

    Grammar: Uncountable: an act of self-surrender, not 'a self-surrender'. It can be used with 'total' or 'complete'.

    Patterns

    • self-surrender to something
    • an act of self-surrender
    • total self-surrender

    The monk described his spiritual journey as a gradual self-surrender to God.

    Her poetry is full of longing and self-surrender, as if she has given up trying to control everything.

    For the soldiers, self-surrender to the cause meant putting the group before their own survival.

  2. noununcountableformalliterary

    The act of allowing yourself to be completely controlled by a feeling or desire.

    Grammar: Used in literary or psychological descriptions, often with 'complete' or 'total': complete self-surrender to grief.

    Patterns

    • self-surrender to something
    • complete self-surrender

    His self-surrender to grief left him unable to work for months.

    The novel shows a dangerous self-surrender to romantic obsession.

Common combinations

total self-surrender
The mystics wrote about total self-surrender as the final step toward union with the divine.
an act of self-surrender
Bowing before the altar was, for her, an act of self-surrender.
self-surrender to God
The hymn expresses self-surrender to God in simple, repeated lines.
self-surrender to a cause
His self-surrender to the revolution cost him his family.

Synonyms and how they differ

submission
Submission is more general and can be forced; self-surrender suggests a voluntary, often spiritual giving up of yourself.
capitulation
Capitulation is used mainly in military or political contexts and means stopping resistance; self-surrender is personal and inner.

Opposites

Word family

surrender verb
To stop fighting or give up control.
surrender noun
The act of giving up or yielding.
self-sacrifice noun
Giving up your own interests for others.

Commonly confused: self-surrender or self-sacrifice?

self-surrender vs self-sacrifice

Self-sacrifice means giving up something valuable for others; self-surrender means giving up control of yourself, often to a higher power.

Practice

In many mystical traditions, ______ is seen not as weakness but as the highest form of devotion.

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