Meaning & use

set in stone

phrase·Everydayfigurative

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UK/ˌset ɪn ˈstəʊn/
US/ˌset ɪn ˈstoʊn/

Meanings

  1. phraseidiomfigurative

    Fixed and final, so that it cannot easily be changed.

    Grammar: Often negative or in questions: nothing is set in stone.

    Patterns

    • be set in stone
    • not set in stone

    The schedule is not set in stone, so we can adjust it.

    Once the contract is signed, the terms are set in stone.

    Nothing is set in stone until the board votes.

  2. phrasebefore a nouninformal

    Used before a noun when a rule or belief is treated as unchangeable.

    Grammar: Often hyphenated before a noun: set-in-stone rules.

    Patterns

    • set-in-stone rules

    They follow set-in-stone traditions at the festival.

    His set-in-stone views made debate pointless.

Common combinations

not set in stone
The date is not set in stone, so tell me if it clashes.
plans set in stone
Our plans are never set in stone.
rules set in stone
The rules are not set in stone and may change.
carved in stone
The design is not carved in stone yet.

Synonyms and how they differ

fixed
Fixed is plain and neutral, while set in stone adds a strong feeling of permanence.
final
Final says nothing more will follow, but set in stone stresses that it cannot be altered.
unalterable
Unalterable is formal and literal, whereas set in stone is a vivid everyday idiom.
binding
Binding suggests legal or moral obligation, and set in stone is about being unchangeable in general.

Opposites

Word family

stone noun
hard mineral material used for building and carving
set verb
to fix or place in a position
stonewall verb
to refuse to answer or cooperate

Commonly confused: set in stone or cast in stone?

set in stone vs cast in stone

Cast in stone is a variant but is less common, and some speakers feel set in stone is the standard form.

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