Meaning & use

smothering

adjective·Academic

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UK/ˈsmʌðərɪŋ/
US/ˈsmʌðərɪŋ/

“smothering” is a form of “smother”. See that entry for the full set of meanings.

Meanings

  1. adjectivebefore a noun

    Thick, close, or heavy enough to seem to block air, movement, or escape.

    Grammar: Often stands before a noun, as in smothering heat; can also follow be: the air was smothering.

    Patterns

    • a smothering blanket of something
    • smothering heat
    • a smothering cloud

    A smothering blanket of fog closed the airport for hours.

    The room filled with a smothering cloud of dust after the wall fell.

  2. adjectivebefore a noundisapproving

    So protective, attentive, or controlling that a person feels overwhelmed and unable to breathe freely.

    Grammar: Usually attributive before nouns like love, attention, or parent; predicative use is also natural: her care felt smothering.

    Patterns

    • smothering love
    • smothering attention
    • a smothering parent

    His smothering attention made the new employee avoid the break room.

    She described the relationship as loving but smothering, with texts every ten minutes.

Word forms

third person singularsmothers
past tensesmothered
past participlesmothered
-ing formsmothering

Common combinations

smothering heat
We waited inside until the smothering heat lost its force.
a smothering blanket of fog
A smothering blanket of fog hid the harbor entrance.
smothering attention
The volunteers felt that smothering attention was not real support.
smothering love
Smothering love can feel like control dressed as care.

Synonyms and how they differ

suffocating
Strongest for airlessness and pressure; smothering can be broader and more descriptive.
stifling
Often prevents growth, freshness, or expression, especially air or freedom.
oppressive
Emphasizes unjust or heavy control rather than the image of covering.

Word family

smother verb
To cover thickly, prevent breathing, or overwhelm with excessive attention.
smothered adjective
Covered, muffled, or overwhelmed, as in a smothered cry.

Commonly confused: smothering or mothering?

smothering vs mothering

Mothering means caring for someone; smothering suggests care so excessive that it overwhelms.

Practice

Choose the best word: His constant messages and questions felt ___ rather than supportive.

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