Meaning & use
sore spot
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Meanings
nouncountablefigurative
A subject that makes someone upset or angry because it reminds them of something painful or embarrassing.
Grammar: Usually singular with an or the, often followed by with or for: a sore spot with him.
Patterns
- touch a sore spot
- a sore spot with someone
Money is a sore spot between my brother and me.
You hit a sore spot when you asked about his old job.
Her weight is a sore spot, so please do not mention it.
nouncountable
A place on the body that hurts when it is pressed or touched.
Grammar: Literal sense, countable: a sore spot on the heel.
Patterns
- a sore spot on something
The doctor pressed gently on the sore spot on my shoulder.
New shoes gave me a sore spot on my heel.
Rub the cream on the sore spot twice a day.
Word forms
| plural | sore spots |
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Common combinations
- touch a sore spot
- The question touched a sore spot.
- hit a sore spot
- I hit a sore spot with the joke.
- a sore spot with someone
- Politics is a sore spot with my father.
- a tender, sore spot
- She kept covering the tender sore spot on her arm.
- a long-standing sore spot
- The merger remains a long-standing sore spot for staff.
Synonyms and how they differ
- sensitive subject
- Sensitive subject is more neutral and polite, while sore spot implies the person is actually hurt or annoyed.
- raw nerve
- Raw nerve suggests an even sharper, more recent pain than sore spot.
- touchy subject
- Touchy subject is casual and focuses on how easily the person gets angry.
- bone of contention
- Bone of contention is an issue people argue about, not one that hurts one person personally.
Word family
Commonly confused: sore spot or soft spot?
sore spot vs soft spot
A soft spot is a feeling of fondness for someone; a sore spot is a painful topic.
Practice
Please don't ask about the divorce; it's a real ____ for him.
Choose one answer.
A sore spot is a topic that upsets someone. A soft spot means affection, a hot spot is a lively place, and a blind spot is something one fails to see.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “sore spot”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.