Meaning & use

stepmother

noun·Everyday

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UK/ˈstepmʌðə/
US/ˈstepmʌðər/

Meanings

  1. nouncountable

    The woman who is married to your father but is not your biological mother.

    Grammar: Countable; use 'a stepmother' or 'my stepmother'.

    Patterns

    • someone's stepmother
    • a stepmother to someone

    After his parents divorced, his father remarried and he gained a stepmother.

    My stepmother and I get along very well.

    She became a stepmother to two young children when she married John.

  2. nouncountable

    A woman who takes on the role of a mother through marriage, not through birth or adoption.

    Grammar: Often used with a possessive: 'her stepmother'.

    Patterns

    • someone's stepmother
    • a stepmother to someone

    His stepmother helped raise him from the age of five.

    She felt like an outsider as the new stepmother.

Word forms

pluralstepmothers

Common combinations

someone's stepmother
My stepmother taught me how to cook.
become a stepmother
She became a stepmother when she married a widower with children.
a wicked stepmother
Fairy tales often feature a wicked stepmother.
stepmother tongue
He spoke his stepmother tongue with a slight accent.

Synonyms and how they differ

stepmom
Informal American English; stepmother is neutral and more formal.
stepmum
Informal British English; stepmother is the standard term.

Opposites

Word family

stepfather noun
The man married to your mother but not your biological father.
stepchild noun
A child of your spouse from a previous relationship.
stepdaughter noun
A daughter of your spouse from a previous relationship.
stepson noun
A son of your spouse from a previous relationship.
stepfamily noun
A family formed when a parent remarries.

Commonly confused: stepmother or foster mother? stepmother or adoptive mother?

stepmother vs foster mother

A foster mother cares for a child temporarily, often with payment, but is not married to the child's parent. A stepmother is married to the child's father.

stepmother vs adoptive mother

An adoptive mother has legally adopted the child. A stepmother has not necessarily adopted the child.

Practice

My father remarried last year, so now I have a ______.

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