Meaning & use

tender

adjective, verb, noun·Everyday

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UK/ˈtɛndə/
US/ˈtɛndɚ/

Meanings

  1. adjectivecomparableapproving

    Gentle and loving in the way someone acts or speaks.

    Grammar: Can come before a noun or after be: a tender smile, she was tender.

    Patterns

    • tender with someone

    He gave her a tender kiss on the forehead.

    She spoke in a tender voice to the frightened child.

    The nurse was tender with the patients.

  2. adjectivecomparable

    Soft and easy to cut or chew, used of food.

    Grammar: Describes cooked food: tender meat.

    The lamb was slow-cooked until it was tender.

    These young carrots are very tender.

    The steak was juicy and tender.

  3. adjectivecomparable

    Painful when touched.

    Grammar: Used about body parts: a tender spot.

    My ankle is still tender after the fall.

    The bruise was tender to the touch.

    He had a tender spot on his shoulder.

  4. verbtransitiveformal

    To offer something formally, such as a resignation or a bid.

    Grammar: Takes an object: she tendered her resignation.

    Patterns

    • tender something to someone

    She tendered her resignation on Monday.

    Three firms tendered bids for the contract.

    He tendered an apology to the board.

  5. nouncountablebusiness

    A formal offer to supply goods or do work at a stated price.

    Grammar: Often put out to tender or submit a tender.

    Patterns

    • a tender for something

    The council invited tenders to build the new library.

    Their tender was the lowest.

    The contract went out to tender.

Word forms

comparativetenderer
superlativetenderest
third person singulartenders
past tensetendered
-ing formtendering
pluraltenders

Common combinations

tender loving care
The plant recovered with tender loving care.
tender age
She learned to swim at a tender age.
tender steak
The restaurant is known for its tender steak.
tender a resignation
He tendered his resignation yesterday.
put out to tender
The project will be put out to tender.
legal tender
Coins and notes are legal tender.

Synonyms and how they differ

gentle
Gentle is more general and can describe anything mild, while tender suggests affection.
soft
Soft describes touch or texture and lacks the emotional warmth of tender.
sore
Sore describes pain that lasts, while tender is pain that appears mainly when touched.
offer
Offer is everyday and informal, whereas tender sounds formal and official.

Opposites

Word family

tenderly adverb
in a gentle, loving way
tenderness noun
gentleness or soreness
tenderize verb
to make meat softer
tenderhearted adjective
kind and easily moved by others' feelings

Commonly confused: tender or tendon?

tender vs tendon

A tendon is a cord that joins muscle to bone, not a quality of softness or gentleness.

Practice

Three companies submitted a ___ to build the new bridge.

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