Meaning & use

two-sided person

noun·Advanceddisapproving

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UK/ˌtuː ˈsaɪdɪd ˌpɜːsn/
US/ˌtuː ˈsaɪdɪd ˌpɜːrsn/
Usage warning: this word is disapproving. It shows a negative opinion, so take care with who and what you use it about.

Meanings

  1. nouncountabledisapproving

    Someone who behaves differently with different people, so others cannot tell what they really think or feel.

    Grammar: Countable: you can say a two-sided person or two two-sided people.

    Patterns

    • a two-sided person
    • be a two-sided person
    • seem like a two-sided person

    She seems warm in meetings but cold to her team, so some colleagues call her a two-sided person.

    He is a two-sided person: generous with friends, harsh with strangers.

    Nobody trusts a two-sided person who says one thing here and another thing there.

  2. nouncountabledisapproving

    Someone who shows one pleasant face in public but acts very differently in private.

    Grammar: Often used with seem, appear or turn out to describe a hidden side.

    Patterns

    • turn out to be a two-sided person
    • appear to be a two-sided person

    On camera he is charming, but at home he turns out to be a two-sided person.

    Voters began to see the mayor as a two-sided person after the recordings were released.

Word forms

pluraltwo-sided people

Common combinations

a two-sided person
Calling someone a two-sided person is a serious criticism of their honesty.
come across as a two-sided person
He comes across as a two-sided person because his stories keep changing.
a bit of a two-sided person
She's a bit of a two-sided person, friendly to your face and sharp behind your back.
see someone as a two-sided person
After the scandal, the public saw him as a two-sided person.

Synonyms and how they differ

hypocrite
Stronger and more accusing; it says the person pretends to have better morals than they really have.
insincere
An adjective rather than a noun, and it focuses on feelings that are not genuine rather than on behaving differently with different groups.
two-faced
Very close in meaning and much more common; it stresses betrayal and is the word most speakers would choose.

Opposites

Word family

two-faced adjective
Behaving dishonestly toward people while pretending to be a friend.
two-sidedness noun
The quality of having or showing two very different sides.

Commonly confused: two-sided person or two-faced? two-sided person or double-sided?

two-sided person vs two-faced

Two-faced is the standard everyday word for someone who betrays others; two-sided person is a looser description and is used less often.

two-sided person vs double-sided

Double-sided describes paper, tape or disks printed on both sides, not people.

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