Meaning & use

wallow in sadness

phrase·Advanceddisapproving

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UK/ˈwɒləʊ ɪn ˈsædnəs/
US/ˈwɑːloʊ ɪn ˈsædnəs/
Usage warning: this word is disapproving. It shows a negative opinion, so take care with who and what you use it about.

Meaning

  1. phraseidiomdisapproving

    To spend a long time being sad and refusing to cheer up or move on.

    Grammar: Used as an intransitive verb phrase: you wallow in sadness, but you do not 'wallow someone in sadness.'

    Patterns

    • wallow in sadness
    • wallow in something

    After the breakup, he wallowed in sadness for weeks instead of seeing friends.

    She told her sister to stop wallowing in sadness and come for a walk.

    It is normal to wallow in sadness for a while after a loss, but not forever.

Common combinations

wallow in self-pity
He spent the evening wallowing in self-pity instead of looking for a new job.
wallow in misery
They wallowed in misery for days after the team lost the final.
stop wallowing
Come on, stop wallowing and let's go out for coffee.
wallow in sadness for weeks
She wallowed in sadness for weeks before she finally asked for help.

Synonyms and how they differ

mope
This means to be sad and inactive, but it does not always suggest enjoying the sadness the way 'wallow' does.
brood
This means to keep thinking about something upsetting; it focuses on thoughts, while 'wallow in sadness' focuses on the sad feeling itself.

Opposites

cheer upsnap out of it

Word family

wallow verb
To roll around in water or mud, or to enjoy a feeling too much.
wallowing noun
The act of staying in a sad or self-pitying state.

Commonly confused: wallow in sadness or wallow in mud?

wallow in sadness vs wallow in mud

The literal use means an animal rolling in mud; 'wallow in sadness' is figurative and about feelings.

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