Meaning & use

you're in the doghouse

phrase·Everydayinformal

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UK/jɔːr ɪn ðə ˈdɒɡhaʊs/
US/jʊr ɪn ðə ˈdɔːɡhaʊs/

Meaning

  1. phrasefixed phraseinformal

    in trouble with someone close to you, especially a partner, because you have done something to annoy them

    Grammar: Used after 'be' or 'get' with the person as subject: I'm in the doghouse. It is not used with an object.

    Patterns

    • be in the doghouse
    • be in the doghouse with someone
    • get in the doghouse

    I forgot our anniversary, so I'm in the doghouse with my wife.

    He stayed out late without calling and now he's in the doghouse.

    She knew she was in the doghouse when he didn't answer her messages.

Common combinations

be in the doghouse with someone
After missing the party, I was in the doghouse with my best friend.
get in the doghouse
If you don't apologize, you'll get in the doghouse.
really in the doghouse
He's really in the doghouse after that comment.
put someone in the doghouse
Her rude remark put him in the doghouse for a week.

Synonyms and how they differ

in trouble
This is a general phrase for being in a difficult situation; 'in the doghouse' is more specific and usually about a personal relationship.
out of favor
This is more formal and can refer to work or social situations; 'in the doghouse' is informal and usually personal.

Opposites

in someone's good books

Commonly confused: you're in the doghouse or dog house?

you're in the doghouse vs dog house

A 'dog house' (two words) is a small shelter for a dog. The idiom 'in the doghouse' is written as one word and means being in trouble.

Practice

My brother forgot his wife's birthday, so now he's ___ the doghouse.

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