Meaning & use

be sober

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UK/biː ˈsəʊbə/
US/biː ˈsoʊbər/

Meanings

  1. phraselinking

    To not be under the influence of alcohol; to have not drunk alcohol.

    Grammar: Describes a state: He is sober. Often used after drinking or at a party.

    Patterns

    • be sober
    • stay sober
    • remain sober

    After three cups of coffee, he was finally sober enough to drive.

    She has been sober for five years.

    At the party, I stayed sober because I had to work early.

  2. phraselinkingformal

    To be serious, calm, and not joking.

    Grammar: Describes a mood or manner: Her expression was sober.

    Patterns

    • be sober
    • a sober expression

    His face was sober as he listened to the bad news.

    The judge was sober throughout the trial.

Common combinations

be sober for
He has been sober for ten years.
stay sober
It can be hard to stay sober at parties.
perfectly sober
I was perfectly sober when I made that decision.

Synonyms and how they differ

clear-headed
Focuses on mental clarity rather than just not being drunk; can be used when you are alert and thinking well.
serious
For the second meaning, 'serious' is more common in everyday speech; 'sober' sounds more formal or literary.

Opposites

Word family

sobriety noun
The state of being sober, especially not drinking alcohol.
soberly adverb
In a serious or calm way.

Commonly confused: be sober or somber?

be sober vs somber

Somber means dark, gloomy, or sad; sober means not drunk or serious. They sound similar but are different.

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