Meaning & use

dating

noun, verb·Everyday

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UK/ˈdeɪtɪŋ/
US/ˈdeɪtɪŋ/

Meanings

  1. noununcountable

    The activity of spending time with someone you are attracted to, to see whether you want a romantic relationship.

    Grammar: Uncountable; no article: online dating is popular.

    Patterns

    • dating someone
    • a dating app/site

    Online dating has changed how people meet.

    She was nervous about dating again after her divorce.

    They talked about dating while eating lunch.

  2. verbtransitive

    Having a romantic relationship with someone, going out together regularly; the -ing form of date.

    Grammar: Takes an object: she is dating a pilot; often in the continuous: are you dating anyone?

    Patterns

    • be dating someone

    He has been dating Maria since the summer.

    Are you dating anyone at the moment?

    They started dating in high school.

  3. noununcountabletechnical

    The process of working out or recording how old an object, event or fossil is.

    Grammar: Uncountable and technical: carbon dating of bones.

    Patterns

    • the dating of something
    • carbon dating

    Carbon dating showed the bones were nearly nine thousand years old.

    The dating of the manuscript is still disputed.

    Careful dating of the layers helped archaeologists build a timeline.

  4. verbtransitive

    Writing a date on something, or showing that something comes from a certain time; the -ing form of date.

    Grammar: Takes an object: dating the letter; dating from a period.

    Patterns

    • dating from a period
    • dating a document

    She is dating the check as the first of the month.

    The church, dating from the twelfth century, is open to visitors.

    He spent the morning dating old photographs.

Word forms

base formdate
past tensedated
third person singulardates

Common combinations

online dating
She met her partner through online dating.
dating app
He deleted the dating app after meeting someone.
carbon dating
Carbon dating is used to estimate the age of ancient wood.
dating back to
The castle has a tower dating back to 1200.
dating scene
The dating scene in big cities can feel exhausting.
start dating
They started dating last spring.

Synonyms and how they differ

courting
Courting is old-fashioned and suggests a serious aim of marriage, while dating is casual and modern.
going out
Going out is the informal British phrase for being in a relationship, while dating can also mean the early stage of getting to know someone.
seeing someone
Seeing someone is vaguer and more private, and it may hide how serious the relationship is.

Opposites

breaking up

Word family

date noun
a romantic meeting or a day on the calendar
dated adjective
old-fashioned
dater noun
a person who dates others
update verb
to make current

Commonly confused: dating or dating from?

dating vs dating from

Dating from describes the age of something (a bridge dating from 1900), but dating alone usually means romantic relationships.

Practice

Archaeologists used carbon ______ to estimate how old the wooden tool was.

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