Meaning & use
enjoying yourself
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“enjoying yourself” is a form of “enjoy”. See that entry for the full set of meanings.
Meanings
phrasefixed phrase
Having a good time and feeling happy because of what you are doing.
Grammar: The reflexive pronoun must match the subject: 'I am enjoying myself', 'they are enjoying themselves'.
Patterns
- be enjoying yourself
- enjoy yourself at something
- enjoy yourself doing something
Are you enjoying yourself at the party?
She was enjoying herself so much that she forgot the time.
We enjoyed ourselves at the beach all afternoon.
phrasefixed phraseinformal
Used as an instruction to tell someone to have a pleasant time.
Grammar: Often said as a short goodbye or good wish: 'Enjoy yourself!'
Patterns
- Enjoy yourself!
- enjoy yourselves
Enjoy yourself at the concert tonight!
Enjoy yourselves, and drive home safely.
Common combinations
- really enjoying yourself
- You look like you're really enjoying yourself.
- enjoy yourself at a party
- I hope you enjoy yourself at the party.
- enjoy yourself on vacation
- They enjoyed themselves on vacation in Spain.
- enjoy yourself while you can
- Enjoy yourself while you can — the work starts Monday.
Synonyms and how they differ
- have fun
- Very close in meaning, but 'have fun' is more casual and does not need a reflexive pronoun.
- have a good time
- Similar everyday meaning; it focuses on the occasion rather than the person's feelings.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: enjoying yourself or enjoy yourself / enjoy you?
enjoying yourself vs enjoy yourself / enjoy you
English uses the reflexive 'yourself', not 'you': say 'Enjoy yourself', not 'Enjoy you'.
Practice
Choose the correct sentence.
Choose one answer.
The reflexive pronoun must match the subject 'she', so 'herself' is correct. 'Himself' matches a male subject, 'yourself' matches 'you', and 'her' is not reflexive here.
Make it your own
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