Meaning & use

enjoying yourself

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UK/ɪnˈdʒɔɪɪŋ jɔːˈself/
US/ɪnˈdʒɔɪɪŋ jɔːrˈself/

“enjoying yourself” is a form of “enjoy”. See that entry for the full set of meanings.

Meanings

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    Having a good time and feeling happy because of what you are doing.

    Grammar: The reflexive pronoun must match the subject: 'I am enjoying myself', 'they are enjoying themselves'.

    Patterns

    • be enjoying yourself
    • enjoy yourself at something
    • enjoy yourself doing something

    Are you enjoying yourself at the party?

    She was enjoying herself so much that she forgot the time.

    We enjoyed ourselves at the beach all afternoon.

  2. phrasefixed phraseinformal

    Used as an instruction to tell someone to have a pleasant time.

    Grammar: Often said as a short goodbye or good wish: 'Enjoy yourself!'

    Patterns

    • Enjoy yourself!
    • enjoy yourselves

    Enjoy yourself at the concert tonight!

    Enjoy yourselves, and drive home safely.

Common combinations

really enjoying yourself
You look like you're really enjoying yourself.
enjoy yourself at a party
I hope you enjoy yourself at the party.
enjoy yourself on vacation
They enjoyed themselves on vacation in Spain.
enjoy yourself while you can
Enjoy yourself while you can — the work starts Monday.

Synonyms and how they differ

have fun
Very close in meaning, but 'have fun' is more casual and does not need a reflexive pronoun.
have a good time
Similar everyday meaning; it focuses on the occasion rather than the person's feelings.

Opposites

be bored

Word family

enjoy verb
To get pleasure from something.
enjoyment noun
The feeling of pleasure you get from something.
enjoyable adjective
Pleasant and giving you enjoyment.

Commonly confused: enjoying yourself or enjoy yourself / enjoy you?

enjoying yourself vs enjoy yourself / enjoy you

English uses the reflexive 'yourself', not 'you': say 'Enjoy yourself', not 'Enjoy you'.

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