Meaning & use
for your own good
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Meanings
phraseidiom
Used to say you are doing or asking something because it will help the person, even if they dislike it.
Grammar: Possessive changes with the person: for her own good, for their own good.
Patterns
- do something for someone's own good
- it's for your own good
I'm hiding your phone for your own good, so you can finish your homework.
The doctor made him rest for his own good.
They told the children to stay indoors for their own good.
phraseidiom
Used in a warning to say that something is wise or necessary to avoid trouble for the person.
Grammar: Often used in warnings: you should stop, for your own good.
Patterns
- for your own good, do something
For your own good, don't mention this to anyone.
You should leave now, for your own good.
She warned him for his own good that the ice was thin.
Common combinations
- it's for your own good
- Take your medicine; it's for your own good.
- all for your own good
- It was all for your own good, I promise.
- do it for your own good
- He did it for his own good, not to be unkind.
- said for your own good
- Everything my parents said was for my own good.
- for her own good
- They sent her away for her own good.
Synonyms and how they differ
- in your best interest
- In your best interest is more formal and neutral, while for your own good often sounds like a parent speaking.
- for your sake
- For your sake emphasizes caring for the person, but need not mean the person dislikes it.
- to your benefit
- To your benefit is formal and stresses a gain, not protection.
- for your protection
- For your protection suggests safety from harm specifically.
Word family
- good noun
- benefit or advantage
- goodness noun
- the quality of being good
- beneficial adjective
- producing a helpful result
- benefit noun
- an advantage you gain
Commonly confused: for your own good or for your own sake?
for your own good vs for your own sake
For your own sake focuses on what benefits you personally, whereas for your own good often implies someone else imposes the decision.
Practice
I know you hate vegetables, but eat them anyway. It's ___.
Choose one answer.
For your own good means it will help you even if unpleasant. At your own risk would warn of danger instead.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “for your own good”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.