Meaning & use

for your own good

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UK/fə jɔːr əʊn ˈɡʊd/
US/fər jʊr oʊn ˈɡʊd/

Meanings

  1. phraseidiom

    Used to say you are doing or asking something because it will help the person, even if they dislike it.

    Grammar: Possessive changes with the person: for her own good, for their own good.

    Patterns

    • do something for someone's own good
    • it's for your own good

    I'm hiding your phone for your own good, so you can finish your homework.

    The doctor made him rest for his own good.

    They told the children to stay indoors for their own good.

  2. phraseidiom

    Used in a warning to say that something is wise or necessary to avoid trouble for the person.

    Grammar: Often used in warnings: you should stop, for your own good.

    Patterns

    • for your own good, do something

    For your own good, don't mention this to anyone.

    You should leave now, for your own good.

    She warned him for his own good that the ice was thin.

Common combinations

it's for your own good
Take your medicine; it's for your own good.
all for your own good
It was all for your own good, I promise.
do it for your own good
He did it for his own good, not to be unkind.
said for your own good
Everything my parents said was for my own good.
for her own good
They sent her away for her own good.

Synonyms and how they differ

in your best interest
In your best interest is more formal and neutral, while for your own good often sounds like a parent speaking.
for your sake
For your sake emphasizes caring for the person, but need not mean the person dislikes it.
to your benefit
To your benefit is formal and stresses a gain, not protection.
for your protection
For your protection suggests safety from harm specifically.

Word family

good noun
benefit or advantage
goodness noun
the quality of being good
beneficial adjective
producing a helpful result
benefit noun
an advantage you gain

Commonly confused: for your own good or for your own sake?

for your own good vs for your own sake

For your own sake focuses on what benefits you personally, whereas for your own good often implies someone else imposes the decision.

Practice

I know you hate vegetables, but eat them anyway. It's ___.

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