Meaning & use

frayed nerve

noun·Advancedfigurative

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UK/ˌfreɪd ˈnɜːv/
US/ˌfreɪd ˈnɜːrv/

Meaning

  1. nouncountablefigurative

    A state of extreme mental strain or irritability, as if one's nerves are worn down.

    Grammar: Often used in the plural 'frayed nerves' to refer to many people's tension.

    Patterns

    • frayed nerves
    • a frayed nerve

    After weeks of overtime, his frayed nerves made him snap at small problems.

    The constant noise was wearing on her frayed nerves.

    The team's frayed nerves showed in their tense silence before the match.

Word forms

pluralfrayed nerves

Common combinations

frayed nerves
The delay only added to everyone's frayed nerves.
soothe frayed nerves
A cup of tea helped soothe her frayed nerves.
a case of frayed nerves
His outburst was just a case of frayed nerves.

Synonyms and how they differ

tension
Tension is a more general word for strain; 'frayed nerves' suggests the strain has made someone irritable or close to breaking.
stress
Stress can be long-term pressure; 'frayed nerves' focuses on the immediate, worn-out feeling.

Opposites

Word family

fray verb
To become worn or ragged, or to strain emotionally.
frayed adjective
Worn at the edges; also used figuratively for strained nerves.

Commonly confused: frayed nerve or raw nerve?

frayed nerve vs raw nerve

A 'raw nerve' is a sensitive topic that causes emotional pain, while 'frayed nerve' refers to a state of strain or irritability.

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